Changing Careers: Timing, Conflict, Preparation

Recognizing the Right Moment

Often, I find myself in conversations with people at a career crossroads, unsure of when it's time to make a change. If you feel this way too, know that you're not alone—and there isn't a one-size-fits-all answer.

For instance, if you consistently face obstacles that seem insurmountable, your well-being is suffering, or your current role no longer aligns with your values or goals, these may strongly indicate that a change is necessary.

In my case, I faced challenges that pushed me to reconsider my path. The truth is, the signs for pivoting differ for everyone, and only you can make the decision.

The Internal Struggle

Some people grapple with the uncomfortable feeling that they’re giving up if they decide to change course in their careers. This internal struggle often involves a deep sense of conflict, as individuals wrestle with the fear of abandoning their previous efforts or dreams.

The idea of pivoting can evoke feelings of failure, as if choosing a different path somehow diminishes the value of your past dedication and hard work. It’s important to recognize that shifting directions can be a courageous acknowledgment that your values, goals or circumstances have evolved. Embracing change often requires vulnerability and self-compassion.

Flexibility in your journey can lead to new opportunities and growth, rather than being seen as a defeat. If you try something new and it’s not for you, nothing stops you from going back or trying something else.

I had to come to terms with all of this before leaving the news business. I also had to stop worrying about what other people would say or think. I tell you this all the time: you have no control over other people. And guess what? They have no control over you! When I finally accepted this truth, my life changed for the better in all areas.

Preparing for a Pivot

While waiting for clarity on whether it's time to pivot, I suggest using this period to focus on preparation. Instead of sitting idle and feeling uncertain, channel that energy into getting ready for whatever comes next. Here’s how:

Self-Reflection: Take some time to reflect on what makes you happy, unhappy, fulfilled, and unfulfilled in your current role. Through this process, I discovered I was no longer passionate about the news business, and I saw the signs of trouble for the industry. What I truly loved was helping people grow and achieve their career goals. This made my transition into professional coaching rather seamless.

Get Your Finances in Order: Understand your financial situation, cut expenses, grow savings, and stick to a budget. I am fortunate to have substantial savings, but they are shrinking, so I maintain a budget and monitor my spending as I build my business.

Network Like Crazy: Reach out and connect with professionals in fields that interest you. You never know where a conversation might lead! I ended up doing a summer internship with the executive coach I worked with when I was Vice President of News at NBC4 Los Angeles, gaining invaluable knowledge and experience. I also reconnected with a former colleague who transitioned to a different industry, which led to two new coaching clients. Networking has also resulted in several public speaking engagements.

Research Your Options: Dive into industries or roles that intrigue you—understand what skills they require, how they align with your passions, and how to leverage your experience. It didn’t take long for me to realize coaching was what I wanted to pursue, and I had a wealth of experience in leadership and career development. I went back to school, completed a coaching training program, and received my certification as a professional coach over the course of a year.

Once I decide to do something, I'm like a freight train at full speed (as my mom puts it, LOL). But remember, preparing doesn't mean making drastic changes immediately; you can take small steps to position yourself better when the right opportunity arises.

When is the Right Time?

Returning to the question I frequently encounter: how will you know when it’s time to make a change? Ultimately, the decision to pivot should be guided by intuition and a careful assessment of your circumstances, ensuring any new direction aligns with your values and long-term aspirations.

If you're feeling overwhelmed or need guidance on your journey, don’t hesitate to reach out! I’m here to help navigate this exciting yet challenging phase of your career.

Wishing you clarity and courage,

Renee