Celebrate what's right with the world!
Seeing is believing” is the philosophy of scepticism. “Believe it, and you will see it" is the philosophy of achievers.
Most of us were born trustful and optimistic. We believed that things would work out and that people would keep their promises. "Daddy will catch me when I jump off the wall"; and "Mom will know how to take the pain away in my tooth". We could not imagine that parents and teachers would ever fail us.
However, this optimism faded quickly and scepticism set in. This was compounded when those that we loved and respected continually told us how difficult life could be. And as we grew 'wise' we saw their faults and their poor reasonings. Furthermore, how many of us have actually had daddies and mommies who cared? How many have grown up in isolation, without a sage family member or friend?
Even when others do support us, life throws us challenges. Time and money are more often in short supply, or we may have to contend with health problems. This is when we need to look around to search out a reason to - Celebrate what’s right with the world?
Of course, there are times when options are extremely limited and we are faced with a difficult situation, such as a serious illness or financial setback. All of our wishing, hoping and praying may not change the situation.
However, a conscious effort to re-frame our life's view, can help us recognise some positive aspects in more dire situations, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant. For instance, we may realise that our situation, while desperate, is temporary. Years ago I recall a presenter at a secretarial conference remind us that: "This too will pass!" Even if we can't change our own situation, is there something we can do to help someone else? "There is more happiness in giving" is valid.
So look around – and look up! See the emergence of new seasons; value the uniqueness of each cloud in the sky. Ponder on how birds cope with hailstorms, and where worms go to breed. And make a list of your unique privileges!
Instead of feeding your mind with a constant stream of disturbing news or movies that promote violence, view ones that feature nature. Or view movies that make you belly-laugh. Motivation awaits us for free on www.ted.com . And instead of connecting through social media, connect with the presence of others who support wholesome talk and gratitude; friends who can help you grow your mind – and your heart!
And ask me about my presentation: "The Power of the Human spirit." I have developed a two-hour talk on the subject as well as a two-day programme with insightful introspection.
This article has been Inspired by Dewitt Jones's video: "Celebrate what's right with the world."
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