Career or cradles? Choices of a working mom.

A year ago, my life changed in the most beautiful way possible—I was blessed with a baby girl. When I first held her in my arms, I was overwhelmed with love and wonder. But beneath that initial joy, there was an undercurrent of uncertainty. The reality of becoming a mother hit me with a force I wasn’t fully prepared for.

The first few months were a whirlwind of sleepless nights and endless diaper changes. It was during this time that I began to question my career choices. Should I resign from my job and dedicate myself fully to motherhood? Or should I continue working, balancing both worlds, despite the challenges?

The decision to resign or stay is not an easy one for any working mother. For me, it was compounded by the lack of nearby family or friends who could offer a helping hand. The isolation I felt was real, and it made the decision even more difficult. I questioned my abilities, my choices, and my future.

One thing that saved me was finding a reliable local childcare provider. It was a blessing to discover a place where I felt comfortable leaving my baby, knowing she would be well cared for while I was at work. This decision was pivotal in helping me regain a sense of normalcy and balance.

Finding the right childcare provider wasn’t just about convenience; it was about peace of mind. I had to ensure that the environment was nurturing, safe, and aligned with my values. After several visits and interviews, I finally found a place where I felt confident that my daughter would be loved and cared for. This discovery was a turning point for me.

With childcare in place, I was able to return to work with a renewed focus. The guilt and anxiety I initially felt started to ease. I realized that being a working mother didn’t mean I was sacrificing my role as a parent; it meant that I was providing for my family in a different way. I began to see my career not as a separate entity from motherhood but as a part of the larger picture of who I am.

Over the past year, I’ve learned that there is no one-size-fits-all answer to the question of whether to stay or resign from a career. Each mother’s situation is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. For me, finding a balance was about making thoughtful decisions and being open to adjusting my plans as needed.

To all the new mothers out there facing similar dilemmas, know that you’re not alone. Whether you choose to stay at home, return to work, or find a balance in between, your journey is valid. Trust yourself, seek the support you need, and remember that every step you take is a step toward finding your own unique path.