Care for those who respect you

Let start with a simple experiment. If you're holding a half empty glass of water.. Let me tell you buddy, even if it's half empty, it's half full too! You're thirsty! So, should you cry over half empty glass? Would you cry and get depressed because it's not filled with water? No, you have other opportunities to drink rest of water from it! Whatever you have, you have to make it work to walk forward, my friend!

The same goes for life! Today, you see no one's around you. No one is beside you, holding your shoulder and let you cry and calm down, no one is there to wipe your tears and grab you and shake you and say “it's ok buddy! No worries! You'll be fine! Stay strong! I'm with you!” No one is there to hug you and listen to your pain and heal your heart. Am I right?

And still don't let yourself down! You are yourself! You've got a life! You've two options.. either spend it or end it! So, ending it is good? No, never! Life is tough. But, Sun will rise after night! Too many negative people are around you. I know. I feel. I believe. But, don't let them put you down! Concentrate on your dreams, on your goals, on your achievements! Move on! Walk away from negative people! Stand up. Hands held high. You can beat me! You can hit me. You can punch me down! But, you can't stop me! I will live and I will fight for myself!”. It's not selfishness my friend! Its called “self care”.

Don't worry about your being alone. Today you've no one. Tomorrow you'll have! Keep faith! Stay strong! Stay brave! You'll meet the right person who is gonna wipe your tears, holding your back, cheer you up! Don't give up! Keep faith in yourself! Left all people behind you! Family, friends, relatives.. everyone! Chase your dreams. Work for your dreams! Cause life is yours! You have rights to work for it and live for it! If you need any help, you can always contact me. God bless you!

If you genuinely care for them you don’t need to do anything, they will definitely see through the act, the gesture, the tone of your voice , etc… literally every thing and if they care for you they will reciprocate it and appreciate you through their way. If they don’t then it just their loss for taking you for granted and you shouldn’t invest too much of your time and energy. It’s going to suck when you want to spend time with them. They’re going to pop up in your head at the most inopportune time and derail your day.

Therefore, get out and learn something new/expand your knowledge. I know, cliche right? But I was in a similar situation a few years ago now. I was strung up over a girl but I decided I would do something rather than stay at home, cry, eat whole bags of cheese puffs in one sitting and watch bad movies on Netflix. All of this makes you more interesting and confident. So when it comes to meeting new and interesting people you’re likely to meet them because you are now more interesting yourself!

Also, become more interesting and forge new relationships that will jell with your newer more confident personality. And by the way, all the above takes time. It’s painful. It sucks. It took me years of work on myself to get to a point where I feel comfortable telling some stranger on social media what they should be doing. Don’t give up and don’t surrender because you deserve better. Cheers!