This can't be ignored anymore...
Michaela Smith
Imposter Syndrome and Conscious Leadership Coach; Dorset Chamber Ambassador
This article is about what has been sitting with me for a few weeks now and can’t be ignored anymore...
Saying 2022 has been an incredible period of an expansion for me so far would be a serious understatement.
Things just keep unfolding.
In my professional life, it has been seven months of feeling into what my clients need, what they are yearning for and also how I can help them expand their consciousness while staying aligned to my values, my life principles and my own yearning.
My 1-2-1 clients come to me to either
-?????????reach their next goal, or
-?????????work out what it is they want next in their lives, or
-?????????work on their often crippling anxieties related to the performance in their Senior positions.
I see many unexplored and unexpressed emotions they have not even been aware of. It often feels like releasing the pressure of the pressure cooker. ??
I see transformations that are often uncomfortable because they uncover the deepest subconscious patterns caused by previous life events.
I see tears of liberation when things “click” or “penny drops”. When breakthroughs shift the life perceptions. Forever.
These are powerful moments.
These are very intimate moments.
None of these moments happen through working with our logical mind. And none of these moments happen through rushing from A to B, crafting yet another action plan.
None of these moments happen through DOing.
They emerge in silence, spaciousness and by BEing.
Consciousness expansion.
An elegant dance of allowing the ideas, discoveries, solutions, next steps, next goal to come to you instead of you “figuring” things out.
It is the constant “figuring out” that causes anxieties. It’s the disconnect from who we are as BEings that causes the internal chaos.
The foundation of my coaching is not about guiding you through “5 steps of how to be successful…” method.
The foundation of my coaching is to help you UNLEARN the things that have been causing you pain, anxiety, stuckness, uncertainty, feelings of being lost, questioning your next move or how to get to your next goal.
Our work together is about YOU REMEMBERING WHO YOU ALREADY ARE.
There’s no 5 steps method to do that. Even though there is a framework that we use.
Each of us is different.
Each of us has different experiences, backgrounds, layers of learned and programed behaviours.
Some of us are ready to remember who we are, some of us are not.
90% of my clients during the course of our work together discover that they are ready and they want to lift that imaginary lid off to let the internal pressure out. ?
Reaching your next goal from the place of knowing who you are is a whole new experience.
Transformation.
Embarking on your own individual spiritual journey. Together we open the doors for you.
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So what it is that “can’t be ignored anymore” you ask?
My yearning to fully express the SPIRITUAL NATURE of my work.
My need to be aligned with what emerges for me as a coach.
Would I call myself a Spiritual Coach? A Conscious Leadership Coach? Expanded Consciousness Coach?
I don’t know. These are all labels that bring the need to put something into a precisely identified box.??
At the same time, I realise it is important to be clear so that you as a client don’t get confused.
So for now, I am a Transformational Coach fully embracing the use of spiritual practices to help you achieve your goals, answer your questions and release the anxieties.?
And so I sit in silence, in my BEing and holding my own space to allow my next direction to emerge. Universe has been very busy talking to me in the last few weeks??.
It does feel a little edgy to let this out. Ego brings the usual doubtful thoughts:
-?????????will you scare your future clients off?
-?????????isn’t it easier to talk about coaching in a conventional, life coaching way? High Achievers relate to the excel sheets and power points better than a talk about BEing (assumption, of course).?
-?????????you’ve had a great run so far, do you really want to disturb the flow? ?
I recognise these thoughts. They are a fear based thoughts trying to protect me from the unknown. But they are JUST my stories.
I welcome them with thanks and gratitude for wanting to “protect” me.
And I consciously choose to listen to my intuition which says
“this can’t be ignored anymore….”
WHAT CAN’T BE IGNORED IN YOUR OWN LIFE ANYMORE?
As always,
With lots of Love,
Michaela x?
Co-founder at Heritage Property Buyers, LLC
2 年I know, bringing our whole self to the journey is empowering and a little fearful.