The Cane

“A legend is an old man with a cane known for what he used to do.......I'm still doing it.” ???- Miles Davis ?

It’s Friday afternoon, I'm making some?final edits and I’m one week out!? This time next week I'll be in surgery having both knees fully replaced.? The countdown has begun.? I?played my final round of golf last Sunday, and paid for it on Monday when both knees filled with fluid, and my ability to move about pain-free was seriously curtailed.? A call to the surgeon’s office did not get the response I was hoping for…..”You did what?? No more golf whatsoever until you are cleared by the Dr…..No we cannot drain your knees you are too close to surgery.? Rest, ice, use a walker or crutches and take Tylenol for pain.? We will see you in two weeks!”? The Tylenol was in the cupboard and I ordered the cane from Amazon.? So much for empathy.

This limited mobility has led to me spending an inordinate amount of time on my deck reading, writing and watching squirrels scamper about (something I hope to be able to do in the near future).? My wife has encouraged me to get out of the house while I can still get about, hence the gym has become a welcome daily retreat.? But one of the things I’ve picked up on, be it at the gym, while walking through a parking lot, or when waiting in a line is that I’m being treated differently.? Why?? The cane!

A little research revealed some interesting information about the history?of a cane.? Originally used as weapons, walking sticks and canes have long been a symbol of strength, power, authority and social prestige, predominantly among men. Three US Presidents; Washington, Grant and Harding all carried them for the symbolism, however the vast majority of those using them today rely on their cane for support; as of recent that includes me.??

That support however is two-fold.? As I look at the broader picture, the support provided by my cane is both physical and mental.? I’ve come to realize that the cane will not only help me remain mobile prior to surgery, but will be something that aids in my rehabilitation.? Likewise, from a mental perspective, the cane symbolizes recovery and a life with new knees.

The cane and I have a few things to accomplish this week, but I know I will be much more dependent on it next week.? I think I’ve gotten past worrying about the cane making me look like an old man.? I’ve come to embrace it as a tool that will help me use those new knees to rediscover some activities I pursued when I was younger.? I guess it just comes down to our perspective on life, and that is what makes all the difference.? Have a great week!

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