Candor conversation's

We hardly live a life on our self-regulated convictions and constructs and with a pure understanding of ourselves. Touching scarcely anything we come in contact throughout our being, solely living for the heck of it, peddling through the same route in the same cycle.

It all berefts reason when we start being critical about everything without even a minuscule analysis of the abstract. This world has been constantly at the end of rebuttal even when we have simple conversations, we hardly give the other a chance to condensate feelings, rather we are busy preparing a counter reply to have an upper hand in the conversation.

Differences in opinion should always lead to a good discourse and should not be the cause of you being disingenuous, being cynical and cocky is even worse. Then you disregard and be critical of everything, the existence, coherence of thoughts, credibility, nuance. But, we hold on to our beliefs too tight that we are afraid to let go of it, for even a decent debate. While we listen with an open heart keeping and an open eye to what the other has to offer, we allow some effective washing, to all the notions we have chugged down largely over time where we have found our perceptions and hypothesis satisfied. Living second-hand lives largely because of tremendous cast and effect theory synthesising every narrative thrown out at our face each day, choosing to believe in things we are inclined to.?

What's the ulterior motive beneath fine white covers, claiming to be the supreme truth fed by intentional civil and moral belief systems that time to time regulate our compass of being wilfully right or how we are supposed to act and then of course being critical, anxious and judgemental throughout.

We are bad for one and good for the other.?

Life is but the decisiveness of perceptions.?

We prick someone's eye and for some, we are the apple. We are all both villains and heroes. No less no more, a mix of both worlds. The other chooses to be with the half they align with better. By the way, it affects us all together, former or later both presenting themselves as a better representative of being a better virtuous vessel from which we tend to drink eternally to be judged. And by whose vision blurry or coloured we see the world we want to? We have to disconnect,?that's the word. Disconnect and disassociate, start a search for your own self. Construct your own set of values resonating with truth and amplifying positive connotations to each streak of thought we promote or prophesize.?