Can You Be Successful Without Putting a Price on Your Dreams?
Serena Martino
?? Executive & Leadership Coach (ICF) | Transforming High-Achievers into Effective Leaders | Boosting Team Performance & Wellbeing
Last week, I had a conversation with a fantastic team where we discussed what truly matters to them at work. These are the top things they value:
It became clear very quickly that none of these things can be measured in monetary terms.
As we often go to work in exchange for a paycheck, it’s easy to overlook the value of the non-monetary aspects of our job. But when these things are at risk, we quickly realize how important they are.
Studies show that we fear loss more than we desire gain, a psychological phenomenon known as loss aversion. In fact, the pain of losing something is often felt twice as intensely as the pleasure of gaining something.
We’re seeing this clearly with the RTO movement: now that we've experienced greater flexibility, many of us are reluctant to give it up. This fear of losing something we've grown accustomed to makes us appreciate it more deeply.
So, how do you put a price on your dreams??
How do you make sure that the things you truly care about are prioritized, while still being successful at work??
Start by asking yourself: How much are you willing to invest in your growth? What are you willing to let go of to make space for what truly matters??
It’s not about choosing one over the other; it’s about balancing your life and passions with the demands of your job.??
When you decide the worth of your time, well-being, and growth, you can start prioritizing them in a way that feels sustainable
Here are three steps to help you do that:
1. Align Your Goals with Your Core Values
Start by identifying your non-negotiables—what are you not willing to compromise on, like family time or learning? Once you’ve clarified those, ask yourself: Do my career goals support these values?
Set goals that reflect your personal and professional priorities. For example, schedule family time just like important meetings. This isn’t about choosing one over the other, but integrating what matters most into your daily choices.
2. Set Boundaries and Protect Your Time
Set clear boundaries with work and communicate them effectively to avoid overcommitting. This isn’t just about saying no; it's about prioritizing what keeps you grounded.
Studies show that having clear boundaries reduces stress and improves overall productivity. By sticking to them, you ensure that both your personal and professional lives receive the attention they deserve, which ultimately helps you avoid burnout and stay focused.
3. Move the Needle, Little by Little
Progress doesn’t always need to be fast or dramatic. People often think quitting their job is the only way to make a change, but small, consistent actions can lead to equally strong—or better—results.
You can start by setting small, manageable goals, like dedicating 30 minutes a day to a passion project or blocking off an hour each week to recharge. Over time, these small steps add up to meaningful progress. The key is consistency. As you commit to making these small changes, you'll notice that the big shifts follow naturally.
When you bring balance, set boundaries, and take small steps consistently, you can uncover the gold in what once seemed intangible.?
It’s often the things we couldn’t put a price on that end up being the most valuable—when we make space for them, they reveal their true worth.
To find your true pot of gold,
Serena
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1 周Thanks for sharing. Insightful ????
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