Can you heal toxic relationships at work, home, or divorce?
Karuna M Jain Empowering people with Holistic tools
Hypnotherapist, Energy Healer, Speaker, Life Coach, Past Life Regression
Yes, yes, yes, you can heal toxic relationships. Let's talk about this in more depth.?
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Earth is a school and relationships are one of the most difficult subjects in this school.?You can see people struggling with relationships whether it is with their partner, spouse, children, family, friends, parents, siblings, colleagues, neighbors, or strangers.?If you pass this subject, you have taken a huge leap in your soul development. You will enjoy greater joy and harmony in your life.
What does healing a relationship mean?
Healing a relationship means being able to look at the relationship through compassion and love. If you can bring that relationship to a point where you feel compassion for the other person or you reach a state of neutral emotions, then you're on the path to passing this difficult subject, graduating from Earth School. Healing also implies forgiving yourself and the other person.?Healing is about releasing negativity and bringing balance to your energy field.
How do you heal toxic relationships?
You bring yourself to a higher level of understanding, to have a fresh new perspective on that relationship. Shakespeare said ‘Life is a play’.?In this play, we are here to learn, grow, and share our learnings with others. Both learning and sharing have to happen in this play. Every relationship is here to teach us something.?If we look at the relationship with our mind, we will never understand it.?The mind is very limiting. It is the heart that understands. To reach higher levels of consciousness you have to move beyond the mind, into the heart. That is the goal of meditation.?The mind will find many justifications for why the other person is wrong, is bad, has tricked you, cheated you,?played with your emotions, and so on. It will put you in that consciousness of victimhood and keep you in that lower consciousness.
Another way to look at it is - We are all wearing filters. These filters are based on our past experiences and we are looking at life through these filters.?if you're wearing a red filter, the world is going to look red.?Even if somebody else tells you the world is blue, you're not going to believe that because in your reality the world is red.?You're going to view your relationships through the filters that you're wearing.?For example, if growing up you couldn't trust the people who were supposed to take care of you,?you will create a filter of distrust and wear this filter in your relationships. Other people who are wearing the same color filter are going to agree with you that the world is red.?These people will tell you that your relationship issues are the fault of the other person.?The other person is bad, it is okay for you to feel negativity against that person.?This will reinforce your belief in your filter.?To see the Truth, you have to remove the filter.?You need somebody who is at a higher level of consciousness than you on this subject, to help you remove the filter so you can see the Truth of this relationship.
As long as you're holding negativity against that person,?you are giving permission for that person to live in your energy field rent-free.?Even if you move away from the person, disconnect from the person, or divorce that person,?that person continues to live rent-free in your energy field.?All that negativity of that relationship continues to exist within you.?This creates a filter in your energy field that affects many areas of your life.?It doesn't matter what your mind tells you, or justifies to you that you are right and the other person is wrong,?you have to find a way to clear that negativity from your energy field, learn from it, and grow. Till you clear the negativity and understand the relationship from a higher perspective,?you will fail this class in the Earth School.?Your relationships with many people will suffer. You are halting your soul development.?If you believe in reincarnation,?or whatever your belief is after we pass from Earth,?you will carry this negativity with you and you will have to clear it somewhere in your soul journey.?You cannot escape from doing this work.?Your soul desires freedom from all negativity.?It has an innate desire to find bliss and happiness and will keep pushing you to clear this negativity. Most likely you have to come to Earth or some planet similar to Earth (same density) to clear this baggage.
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Getting admission to the Earth school is very difficult.?It may take you hundreds of years or even thousands of years before you get admission to the school again.?You're halting your soul development for this length of time.?Since this is a difficult subject,?it takes many lifetimes on Earth to pass this subject.?As you got admission to this school in this lifetime, the wise thing to do is to try and pass this subject now.?Know that you have no choice but to do it sometime during your soul Journey.?Why wait? The longer you wait, the more difficulty your soul has in its journey. In fact, it gets worse, the longer you carry the negativity. The negativity multiplies with time. It is like a snowball going down a steep slope, the snowball continues to get bigger and heavier as it rolls down. It will take way greater effort to release the negativity than it will take now. The longer you delay learning your lessons, the more difficult it becomes to pass the test.?
Practical steps to take to heal toxic relationships
1.????Taking responsibility:?First, you have to take responsibility for your soul development.?You want to have a strong desire to create harmony in all your relationships, to want to learn and grow from the lesson life gives you. Strong desire to want to put in the time, effort, honesty, and dedication to healing your relationships.
2.????Spiritual Life Coaching:?Life coaching through The Eyes of Spirit,?Eyes of Compassion and Love is Spiritual life coaching.?Going beyond blaming the other person to understand why you manifested this relationship,?what are the lessons to learn,?and how can you grow, and evolve? This step is very important as you need the courage to heal your relationships. In my view, regular life coaching is too left-brain and takes a long time with slow growth. Find a Life Coach who is into spirituality, and believes in Love and Compassion. My mission is to heal people from a place of unconditional love and light.?
3.????Energy cleansing:?All the negativity, limiting beliefs, limiting perceptions, attachments, and cords, get stuck in your energy field,?in your chakras, aura, and meridians.?You can get chakra and Aura cleansing done by a professional energy healer.
I have something called the ‘Compassion Healing’ modality that can drill across many lifetimes you had with this soul with whom you have a relationship issue. It clears up to whatever extent possible, emotional baggage,?limiting beliefs, limiting knowledge,?Agreements, Covenants, Vows, Psychic cords, Karmic cords, and other cords. It brings back all of the energies that you have left in people, places, and situations. It cleanses this energy and reintegrates it back into your energy field (Soul Reintegration).?It also releases all the energies you are holding that does not belong to you.?It patches up torn fragments of your energy field. I do a lot more energy work that cannot be explained in words in the Compassion Healing modality. It is very powerful.?
4.?????Learn Techniques: You can learn some tools and techniques to balance your energy field.?An example could be learning Reiki healing,?grounding techniques, techniques to protect your energy field, and more.?This is a critical aspect of my working with clients,?as I always want to empower clients so they can take care of many of the down periods in their life.?For bigger issues and emotional experiences, they can contact a professional healer.
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5.?????Past Life Regression:?People closest to you in this lifetime are most likely souls that have been with you in many other lifetimes.?You have a Soul agreement with them.?Past Life Regression can help you heal your relationships with this soul in other lifetimes,?help you to understand your patterns,?how you behave,?what you went through with that soul in other lifetimes,?release the Karmic baggage, the mental burdens, and more. At times, Past life regression will unfold things that you may need to clear after the session with additional therapy.?It provides a path to healing your Multidimensional self.?You can also bring back learnings from other lifetimes that will help you in this life to have better relationships.
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To summarize,?you can and should heal your toxic relationships in this lifetime to the maximum extent possible.?This is a difficult subject and hence it takes time and effort. It is a process.?With heart-based Spiritual Life Coaching, it is way faster to heal the relationship than with left-brained approaches. It gives you a huge leap in your soul development.?It makes life so much better and easier when we have harmonious and happy relationships. Great mentors are Jesus, Buddha, and other enlightened beings who were on Earth and showed how they can see everyone through the eyes of love and compassion.?
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I offer a free 30-minute consultation. You can send me an email at [email protected] or contact me via my website https://www.karuna-healing.com . Feel free to forward the article to others.
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Karuna Jain, M.S (Physics)
Certified Life Coach, Hypnotherapist, Energy Healer (Reiki Master), Past Life Regression therapist
Website: https://www.karuna-healing.com
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/KarunaJain/videos
Healing Mind and Body through Universal Compassion
USA, 408-218-5887
My Mission: To assist my clients to reach their goals in a loving, compassionate, non-judgmental environment using the best of the Eastern and Western methods of natural mind-body healing modalities.