Can you have success without sacrifice?

Can you have success without sacrifice?

Hi [FIRST NAME GOES HERE],

I have sacrificed NOTHING and am the most content I have ever been.

Doesn’t sound realistic right?

I didn’t think so at first either.

But sacrifice means giving up something that you value.

Things that you actually care about.

I haven’t given up anything I value.

I have taken some time and reflected on what is important to me.

I have cut the fat, stripped things out, simplified.

I found out where I was wasting time and energy on things that I don’t care about anymore.

I identified thoughts and beliefs that were slowing me down.

And got rid of them all.

I’m focussed and ruthless with my priorities.

And learnt how to say no.

I have defined my version of success.

I know my standards.

I don’t care about my mate Dave with his Lambo on Instagram.

Doom scrolling doesn’t make feel terrible any more.

I’m not pining for a different life.

I’m content with mine and ambitious for more.

My business is growing.

I’m in the best shape I’ve ever been in.

I am an open and reliable teammate to my wife.

I am a present, playful Dad who absolutely adores his daughter.

I feel great.

I KNOW that I am on the pathway to being the man and Dad that I want to be.

All without sacrificing anything.

So here’s a challenge for you this weekend.

Take some time to think.

What isn’t serving you any more?

What one thing in your life can you get rid of?

Let me know what it is and you can have a free 30 min accountability coaching session!

Cheers,

Steve

PS I’m off on holiday next week and will be drinking a Mahou by the pool so will be taking a small break from the old newsletters. Normal service will resume the week after next!

Anurag Rai MBPsS FIoL

Founder of Superhuman In You and AMHWAL Academy | Creator of Human Intelligence Model ?? for Leadership | NED | 3x Best Selling Author | Organisational Psychologist MSc | Key Note Speaker | Team Workshops & 1:1 Coaching

6 个月

Great article Steve! 'What we are sacrificing for' must be worth more than what we are sacrificing.

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Anish Dutta Roy

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6 个月

Soemtimes you need to sacrifice a lot But with the right mentor to guide you sacrifices can be minimised Steve Cardwell

Agnimitra Ghosh

I help Coaches/Consultants/Founders 3X their Revenue Generating LEADS from Meta Ads through Sales Funnel Strategy | Landing Page | Automation | Funnel Building | Lead generation.

6 个月

It's important to prioritize what's truly important to you and let go of things that aren't serving you. Steve Cardwell Success often requires making difficult choices and letting go of certain things. However, it's important to distinguish between healthy sacrifices and unhealthy compromises.

Warrick Hegarty

Freelance Coach and Coaching Divison Lead. Coaching with a side of Coaching! Did I say Coaching enough?

6 个月

Love the phrase "pick your sacrifice" as long as its intentional. Spending the morning with my kids I am potentially sacrificing an unknown opportunity. I have also coached people who put work first and sacrificed their family and health in the process.

"Completely agree! Success really comes down to consistent effort and staying focused on the end goal. Breaking things down into small, achievable steps has worked wonders for me. By the way, I’m helping organize a webinar on entrepreneurship, and since it’s related to your post, I thought I’d share the link: https://www.dhirubhai.net/events/preparingyourselfforentrepreneu7236646980934877184/"

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