Can You Be Both? 1 Take on Positivity and Trust
??Dorice Horenstein, International Keynote Speaker Positive Intelligence Expert, Best Selling Author
Empowering Leaders to Achieve Effectiveness and Higher Productivity, Navigate Challenges, & Cultivate a Champion Mindset | Facilitator | Positive Intelligence Expert | Oy to Joy Champion Catalyst
I was invited me to present during a recent retreat the concept of Trust. I thought to myself: What can I say that will add a new aspect to this topic? Something that will be helpful to others??
And I knew immediately!
An example: When my sister was battling cancer at the age of 38 I chose to go this route. Every Saturday night, I put a video of positivity and trust on facebook. For over 50 Saturday nights I created messages to cheer her up , to show her that there is a light at the end of the tunnel of chemotherapy and radiation.?
?Doing that I discovered something more important . Something that influenced me in the summer of 2018 – to leave my position as an education director of a conservative synagogue, with nothing, and I mean NOTHING in hand, nothing to fall back on. I discovered that--
You Can't Have Trust Without Positivity But You Can't Have Positivity Without Trust.
Do you agree? Have you seen people who are trusting, but not positive? Those who believe and trust that gloom and doom is just around the corner? Those who breath and sign heavily because their reality is so bleak??
?While it is definitely a choice to journey through this way, I choose a differently.
I chose to be positive.?AND to choose trust.?
What I learned is that trust is the seed for positivity, not the other way around. What I learned is:
Positivity is all about what I do, how I think and how I behave. Trust is letting go of the I.
A lot of people talk about trust and faith.
Here is my take:
Faith is internal. You believe what you believe.
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Trust is putting your beliefs in actions. It is external.
And one of the external actions is through positivity- doing your work, one leg before the other with complete trust that whatever is happening will be for good.?
And then you let go. You have planted your seed.
ooooh, is this hard…to let go….but we must!
And here is a Hebrew gem to shed a light on just that--The Hebrew words for Positivity and Must share the same three root letters. When that happens, that means there is a connection! What is it?
Positivity is a must!
Think and retrieve examples of intersection of Trust and Positivity in your own life? What were the challenges and how did you handle it? Would you have done something differently?
As always,
Be Yourself, Be Positive, Be the Champion you want to see!
Who is Dorice Horenstein? ?? Dorice Horenstein is an author to best seller Moments of the Heart, Four Relationships Everyone Should Have to Live Wholeheartedly??Oy to Joy relationship speaker ?? helping leaders and teams find their power within to improve effectiveness ??a certified Positive Intelligence /Mental Fitness and ICF coach. Dorice Motivates audiences through challenges and changes with positivity to gain awareness ? enhances relationships ? joy? and appreciation of life.?? and thus find the champion within??!
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1 年I share your positivity. When I went through the cancer care for my mom, your positivity really helped me to go through the hard time. Thank you.
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1 年Dorice you’re always so full of wisdom! My favorite nugget was “trust is letting go of the ‘I’.” And yes, I agree that positivity and trust go hand in hand. Thank you for being a positive and inspiring presence in my life and the lives of so many!