Can we expect love and care in relationship?

There are only few people with whom we are deeply attached with a strong bond. And in relationship it’s a normal thing but remember excess things are not good( example you are in love with a girl and she is having same feeling for you. okay! so, now you are in relationship. All well throughout first few months so much of caring and love but one day you become over possessive because that girl is having so many male friends. Its good you care about her that’s why possessiveness is there

Of course remember if you start spying her, then she will leave you . But in your point of view, you think you are caring or protecting her but in her point of view, you are just unprotected and over possessive so she is not going to have freedom. By balancing everything in your life is a creative thing and smartness is seen. It is not wrong to expect love and care from a relationship, however sometimes love and care is not reciprocated. If this is the case, you need to re-assess your relationship. Relationship is about the two of you, not just one-sided. Love and care does not usually happen instantly or immediately. You need to know your partner deeply and there should be a connection between you two besides you both respect each other and your affection towards your partner is not just based on physical/sexual attraction.

You both should grow into your relationship. Also, you still need to love yourself and not give 100% of yourself to the other if you feel you are not treated equally. If humans didn't need love and care, there wouldn't be something which is called relationship. It is not wrong. It is natural. Everyone needs to love and to be loved, to care and to be cared. Having a relation is the complement part of a human. All of these things are completely natural.

But, expecting love and care from a specific man/woman is wrong. You may be doing this mistake. I think you become dependant to someone and expecting love and care. It is wrong. He/she is not the only person that can give you what you need. Look around of yourself. In time and at last, you will find the true person that will give you what you need. Expectation is the foundation of disappointment. Instead, encourage your ambition to make plans and take action.

If you become responsible for your experience of the world, you will become powerful in creating the experiences you need to grow and evolve. And to answer another question that I may have heard, it is very possible to create a loving and caring relationship. Stoke your ambition. Why it is wrong no not at all..even its your right to expect after all we all are human being and we want love and care in return…so if you are not getting just come out from that relationship..I also have been there in the same situation you are right now…so rather than making yourself emotionally vulnerable think about yourself and trust me you wont regret later on…choice is yours whether you wanna get hurt or be wise and move on.

What I believe, when you expect something from someone, you should be giving the same or more in the first place. That said, love is always selfless, and doesn’t come with expectations. If you are not receiving love at all in your relationship, it’s time you reconsider your future with that person. The first resort should be to have a honest conversation with him or her. Communication is the key in any sort of relationship.  In fact, the mere fact of being born gives an inborn right to be loved, at very least by yourself i.e. don’t expect “love and care” to suddenly arise out of a relationship, caring for one another is normally inherent to being human, regardless of the degree of intimacy one has. Cheers!