Caged, Comfortable, or Charged - Which Life is Yours? - Brendon Burchard
How often do you run into people that are not shy telling you they do a great job but its the others that prohibit them from progressing with their lifes, and how often did you join them in that thinking pattern?
Please stop doing so and watch this video and use the learning from it to your next interaction. You will learn to identify quickly the life they're living and you can adjust your level of help to them to have them see opportunities if only they took charge of their own destiny.