Busy isn’t always better: 5 reasons to stop now and again
Maria Newman
Helping the retired, the redundant and the divorced to regain their confidence, reconnect with who they are and silence their inner critic so they can navigate life with certainty
I used to think I was only being productive if I was doing stuff and taking action. The thought of doing nothing just seemed like a waste of time.
And yet, there were plenty of times when I’d hit the wall, completely drained, because I was constantly in ‘go’ mode.
What would have helped me more was taking a moment to stop.
By stepping back, I could have got a clearer view of what was really going on.
This would have given me the time and space to figure out my next move instead of just staying busy.
I’m all for action, however, if you’re heading in the wrong direction, you’re not really getting anywhere.
How about taking the time to pause?
Pausing might seem counterproductive. However, what if it is the one thing that actually saves you time in the long run?
So, when you feel overwhelmed, stuck or unsure of your next step, take a pause. It’s a small action that can make a huge difference, giving you the breathing room you need to move forward with certainty, instead of just filling time.
Now pausing doesn’t literally mean doing nothing. It means taking time out for yourself to think and reflect.
Here’s how you can use the power of pausing.
Look at how far you’ve come
The saying “This too shall pass” is worth remembering when life gets tough. In those moments, reflect on where you’ve come from. Celebrate the progress you’ve made and the obstacles you’ve already tackled.
This situation is temporary and you are far more capable than you think. Give yourself the time to remember that you can handle whatever life throws at you.
Reassess your direction
Sometimes we end up on a path that no longer fits, whether it’s by accident or on purpose. It’s important to check in now and again, to see if you’re still heading where you want to go.
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Changing course isn’t always easy and in the short term it might feel even harder. However, choosing the right path in the long run makes life feel easier.
Recharge when you need to
When we’re always on the go, it drains us. That’s why it’s crucial to make time to recharge. Running on empty won’t get you far before your body insists you stop.
If life is feeling a bit much and exhaustion is starting to take over, that’s your signal to be kind to yourself and refuel.
You don’t need expensive retreats or fancy getaways. Find simple, everyday things that help you feel refreshed and give you time to breathe.
Step away to see clearly
When you’re knee-deep in it, sometimes the best thing is a distraction. Stepping away to do something completely different can give you a fresh perspective on your current challenges.
Figure out what easily takes your mind off things, maybe it’s music or a hobby, so you know what to turn to when life feels heavy.
Refocus on what matters
When life feels like a whirlwind, it’s helpful to remind yourself of what really matters, like the people you care about and the things you’re grateful for.
This can ground you and refocus your energy on what truly serves you.
Pausing isn’t about doing nothing. It’s about taking a temporary step back so you can make the best decision for yourself. It’s a chance to observe what’s going on without getting swept up in the emotions. This distance lets you see things more clearly, opening your eyes to opportunities you may have missed. Pausing is what will ultimately help you move forward.
So, is it time for you to pause?
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1 个月SUCH an important message Maria!