The Burden of Regret

“Of all the words of mice and men the saddest are IT MIGHT HAVE BEEN” – Kurt Vonnegut

REGRET : Sadness, Repentance, Disappointment.

The human quality of Regret-Ability, is the single greatest determinant of The Future, and One’s Quality of Life. Regret defines the interval between the present and future, guiding decisions, encouraging awareness and most importantly self-awareness, and influencing good and meaningful action. The great old adage, “Learn From the Past,” takes on new meaning when considered from the perspective of Regret.? This will allow for the individual to live more mindfully in the present while preparing thoughtfully and intent-fully for the future, thereby avoiding the Crushing Burden of Regret.?

Avoiding Regret

Thoughtfulness

Careful and Constant Consideration reduces impulsiveness which can lead to regret.

Self-Awareness

Reflect on values, identify priorities, and consider that which truly matters most.?

Align decisions with what you care about and love most.

Accept Imperfection

No decision is perfect, and risk is part and parcel of every choice. Be measured.

Learning from Mistakes

In lieu of dwelling on past errors, learn and grow from them.?

The Recognition of a Mistake can be an opportunity for transforming potential Harmful Regret.

Action

When possibilities (they are always there) arise take action.?

Good Action is Love. Love is Good Action.

Communicate Endearing Thoughts Freely

Express your warm and endearing thoughts and feelings to those who deserve to know.

Expectation Management

Unrealistic expectations lead to disappointment and regret.

Forgive Even Yourself

Practice Consideration.

Prioritizing Meaningful Relationships

Invest the most precious resource, time, into your most cherished relationships.

The Present is a Present

Not Regretting the Past.

Looking Forward to the Future.

Most Importantly Appreciate the Present.

The present is precious, for it is in the present that the future can be changed.

“Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day.”?– Ralph Waldo Emerson