Bullies have compassion, too.

Bullies have compassion, too.


I don’t support bullying.


But I would like to share an interesting incident that I encountered.


I was sad, or rather, depressed, about personal matters.?


It was obvious on my face. Besides, I fail to fake a smile.


As I sat quietly in the office, some of my colleagues did care to ask if everything was okay.


Then there was this guy who had witnessed a colleague poking fun at me days ago. He thought that could be the reason and tried to console me.


Surprisingly, I learned that he himself is a bully among his peers. I was taken aback when he advised me not to take bullies seriously or give them any heed.


Seriously? Was this coming from a person who people consider a bully?


I couldn’t process him comforting me. It pushed me to think about the qualities less acknowledged in such a kind.


A study disclosed that bullies are twice as likely to suffer from mental health issues.


Why do bullies flaunt their dominant traits?


I am no expert. But all I know is that they deserve more emotional guidance and mental support to help them identify and embrace their promising sides.



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Prinoy D'Costa

Lead Software Engineer @ Persistent Systems | Full Stack | .Net Core | ReactJs | TypeScript | JavaScript

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