"Bulldozer" no more
Megumi Miki
LinkedIn Top Voice ? International Speaker Author Consultant on Leadership Culture Diversity and Inclusion ? Founder of Quietly Powerful ? Co-Founder of Leaders Who Listen
For those of you in Australia, what a weekend with the federal election! Some of you may be very disappointed and others of you may be elated. Putting aside policies and politics, what I am absolutely thrilled about is the removal of the "bulldozer" approach to leadership.
Our former Prime Minister acknowledged that he has been a bulldozer and he was willing to change. But in the same sentence, he said that he had to be like that, to be "strong" through the pandemic and uncertainty. It just highlighted how stuck we are in the belief that strong leadership = dominance and that uncertain times require this style.
Some time ago I wrote an article Strong leadership ≠ dominance ?and I do believe that we really need to redefine what strong leadership is about. As New Zealand Prime Minister, Jacinda Ardern said, "One of the criticisms I’ve faced over the years is that I’m not aggressive enough or assertive enough, or maybe somehow, because I’m empathetic, it means I’m weak. I totally rebel against that. I refuse to believe that you cannot be both compassionate and strong.” I believe that it takes more strength as well as cognitive and emotional intelligence to listen, be?open to others' perspectives, empathise and remain humble.
The other belief that I feel is outdated is that uncertainty requires fast decision-making without consultation and collaboration. There may be times of critical emergency where some fast decisions may need to be made, so I'm not advocating that it is never required. A bulldozer is useful, but only for certain situations. However, there are uncertain situations that require more consultation and collaboration to be inclusive of diverse perspectives and navigate complexity as well as have empathy to be able to bring people along. I wonder how different we would have managed situations if our political leaders had listened more with greater humility and empathy?
I'm looking forward to seeing whether our new Prime Minister and his team can lead differently. With a large cohort of?independents who are not part of his party, his and his team's listening and collaboration skills are going to be absolutely critical. They will no doubt disagree on issues, so as I recall one panelist on the election broadcast said, “We need to learn to disagree better.”
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As I’ve mentioned before, we need more #quietlypowerful leadership now, more than ever . What do you think?
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Gestalt Psychotherapist/Clinical Supervisor, Trauma Therapist & Trainer, psychedelic assisted psychotherapist (MDMA MAPS), Eco psychotherapist, Hakomi student, AOD & MH specialist on Wurundjeri Country.
2 年Nailed it. Love this Megumi! I too am watching eagerly to see how this new Government leads, already it does feel like a kinder, respectful internationally diplomatic approach with a greater sense of "we" as opposed to "me" - time will tell.
Public sector professional, experienced in program governance, design, implementation and evaluation. Most excited about leading my team to deliver on continuous improvements in performance reporting.
2 年Andrea Fischer GAICD there you go
Consultant at Addisons
2 年So pleased you posted on this Megumi Miki.
Say, "Let's create a course!" and you have my full attention. | Learning Experience Designer and Consultant | Charity Founder | Mental Health Advocate | Introvert
2 年I think quietly powerful leadership also makes space for more mindful leadership.
Melbourne Careers Counsellor & Employability Coach - professional employment Australia
2 年Real leaders (realdozers) connect with people and don't push them away ... or out of the way. Even if we can't agree on everything, with a connection it's surprising what barriers people take down, and begin to work on real issues.