Building the Right You: The Art of Self-Development

Hey there, fellow journeyer!

Recently, I was in an engagement with one of my beloved lecturers when I was in school, Dr. Adenike Adeyemi, a woman with so much passion for helping young people become a better version of themselves. Our discussion brought me consciousness to write about this subject matter from the lessons discussed.

Ever felt that burning desire to be the best version of yourself, but not sure where to start? Well, you’re not alone. Welcome to the exciting world of self-development — the key to unlocking your potential and living a life of impact.

When it comes to self-development, it’s all about sculpting the best version of yourself. Think of it as your personal masterpiece in the making, crafted through intention and action.

“You have to identify the right you with the help of the Holy Spirit, then build yourself, develop what you have discovered about you that will make you a blessing to your generation living an impactful life.”

The journey kicks off with a little soul-searching. Ask the Holy Spirit for guidance, and identify your strengths, weaknesses, passions, and purpose. This is your foundation.

“This life-building process is known as SELF DEVELOPMENT — an intentional process of evolving, maturing, expanding, and inventing yourself.”

Components of the Self-Development Package:

Now, let’s unpack the goodies in your self-development toolkit. Some practical steps to guide you on your journey of self-improvement.:

1. Seek Knowledge: Dive into books, podcasts, and online courses that expand your horizons. For example, explore topics like mindfulness, leadership, or financial literacy to gain new perspectives.

2. Attend Workshops: Look out for workshops or webinars in your area of interest. Whether it’s a writing workshop, a coding bootcamp, or a cooking class, hands-on experiences can turbocharge your skills.

3. Formal Education: Consider pursuing higher education or certifications in fields that ignite your passion. Completing a degree program or earning a professional certificate can open doors to new opportunities.

4. Training: Invest in specialized training to sharpen your expertise. For instance, if you’re passionate about photography, enroll in a photography workshop to master advanced techniques.

5. Seminars: Attend seminars and conferences to learn from industry experts and thought leaders. Hearing success stories and insider tips can inspire and motivate you on your own path.

6. Acquire Skills: Get your hands dirty and learn practical skills that complement your interests. Whether it’s gardening, woodworking, or graphic design, there’s no limit to what you can learn.

7. Continuous Learning: Embrace a growth mindset and commit to lifelong learning. Stay curious and be open to exploring new ideas and perspectives, even if they challenge your existing beliefs.

8. Constant Improvement: Set aside time for self-reflection and goal-setting. Identify areas for improvement and take proactive steps to enhance your skills and knowledge.

“Self development can only be done by you. Make sure you are building the right you per time.”

Why should you care?

Because in the end, it’s about crafting a life that aligns with your purpose, making a positive impact, and becoming the person you were designed to be.

So, fellow journeyers, are you ready to embark on this thrilling adventure of self-development? The first step starts with YOU.

“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

Remember, self-development is a journey, not a destination. Embrace the process, celebrate your progress, and keep striving for excellence. With dedication and perseverance, you can sculpt the masterpiece that is your best self.

Let’s build the right you, one intentional step at a time. Share this journey with someone who needs a nudge in the right direction!

• Ekundayo Oluwadamilare PMP—Your Personal Development Person.

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