Breaking Through the Plateau: How Self-Awareness and Relationships Shape Your Income
Faisal Ensaun
I help Multifamily real estate investors go from employee to CEO and create a life of freedom, with meaningful contribution without torching their health, happiness or wrecking their relationships through the FP method.
Are you in your 30s, 40s, or 50s and feel like you’ve hit a ceiling in your personal growth and income? It’s a common scenario, but there’s a way to break through. Your income and overall success in life are closely tied to two critical factors: your self-awareness and the quality of your relationships.
These aren’t just buzzwords—they are the foundation of how you experience life and achieve success. Let’s dive into how expanding your awareness and nurturing meaningful connections can elevate both your personal and professional growth.
The Importance of Self-Awareness
Self-awareness is often misunderstood. It’s not just about knowing your strengths and weaknesses; it’s about actively expanding your understanding of yourself in different roles—whether that’s as a parent, a leader, or a business owner. Look back five or ten years. Has your awareness of your own capabilities, emotions, and limitations grown? If not, it’s likely that your personal and professional progress has also stalled.
From ages 20 to 35, most people experience a steep learning curve. You’re building your career, navigating personal relationships, and developing your identity. This period is marked by rapid growth and, often, corresponding increases in income. But what happens next? Many people become complacent. They stop challenging themselves, and as a result, their growth—both personal and financial—plateaus.
Embrace Discomfort for Growth
True growth begins at the edge of your comfort zone. If you’re not feeling challenged or uncomfortable, chances are you’re not growing. Whether it’s starting a new business, learning a new skill, or tackling a long-standing fear, pushing yourself into unfamiliar territory is essential. This discomfort is the catalyst for breaking through the plateau and reaching your next level of success.
In Chinese philosophy, the concept of yin and yang represents the balance of opposites—like chaos and order. Without the chaos of pushing yourself into new areas, there’s no order or progress. Embracing this principle in your life means welcoming the discomfort that comes with growth.
Understanding the Role of Awareness in Different Life Roles
Every role you play in life requires a specific set of skills and a level of awareness. As a business owner, you need to understand not just your products and services, but also sales, marketing, operations, and systems. If you’re not pushing yourself to grow in these areas, your business will reflect that stagnation.
The same applies to your personal roles. As a parent, are you present and engaged with your children? As a leader, are you inspiring your team and driving results? Your awareness in each of these roles determines how effectively you can fulfill them, and ultimately, how much satisfaction and success you derive from them.
Relationships: The Foundation of Success
Now, let’s talk about relationships. The quality of your personal and professional relationships plays a pivotal role in your overall success and happiness. If your relationships are fraught with tension, miscommunication, or lack of support, it’s going to be nearly impossible to perform at your best.
Healthy relationships require continuous effort and a willingness to engage in open, honest communication. Whether it’s your spouse, business partners, or colleagues, the strength of these connections can significantly impact your focus, motivation, and ability to achieve your goals.
Long-Term Vision in Business and Personal Life
When it comes to relationships—especially business partnerships—think long-term. I don’t engage in partnerships unless I see the potential for a ten-year collaboration. Building something meaningful requires trust, mutual respect, and a shared vision. Short-term gains may seem tempting, but they often come at the cost of long-term success and fulfillment.
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Invest in relationships that align with your values and goals, and you’ll find that your growth—both personal and financial—will follow suit.
Reflect and Take Action
So, where do you stand today? Are you pushing yourself to grow in every aspect of your life? Are your relationships fostering that growth, or holding you back? Take a moment to reflect and make the changes necessary to elevate your awareness and strengthen your connections.
If you’re ready to go deeper, download my free "Unlock Your Legacy Life Power Pack" at FaisalEnsaun.com . It’s filled with resources to help you expand your self-awareness and transform your relationships for long-term success.
Stay focused, stay committed, and keep growing.
— Faisal Ensaun, CHPC