Breaking The Silence

Breaking the Silence: Why We Need to Talk About the Military

As someone from a proud military family and has served in the armed forces myself, talking about the military has always felt natural to me and those who are closest to me. Yet, as my career in civilian life has progressed and since joining my company, Staffmark ’s, Military Alliance Business Resource Group (BRG), I've noticed something peculiar: people outside the BRG are often hesitant to broach the subject of the military. Which got me noticing, it is not just people outside the BRG, but the general public as well. It's as though there's an unspoken discomfort surrounding the topic—a reluctance to engage in discussions about those who serve. But why is this? And why does it matter?

The Veil of Secrecy

One reason for this hesitation is undoubtedly the shroud of secrecy that often envelops military operations and protocols. Classified information and the need-to-know basis on which much of military life operates can make it seem impenetrable to those on the outside. This lack of transparency can create a sense of distance and detachment, making it challenging for civilians to relate to or engage with the military community.

The Political Conundrum

But perhaps an even more significant barrier to open dialogue about the military is its perceived entanglement with politics. In today’s polarized climate, anything remotely related to government or national defense is often viewed through a partisan lens. The military becomes a symbol, a pawn in the political chess game rather than the human institution it truly is.

The Human Element

Yet, amidst the veils of secrecy and political entanglements, there lies a fundamental truth: the military is comprised of individuals—sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, mothers and fathers—who have made a conscious choice to dedicate themselves to the service of their country. Behind every uniform is a human being driven by a deep sense of duty, honor, and sacrifice.

Bravery is being the only one who knows you’re afraid. ? -Franklin P. Jones

Reframing the Narrative

It’s time to shift the narrative surrounding discussions about the military. Yes, there are politics involved—just as there are in every aspect of our society—but at its core, the military represents something far more profound: a commitment to safeguarding the freedoms and values upon which this nation was built.

The veterans of our military services have put their lives on the line to protect the freedoms that we enjoy. They have dedicated their lives to their country and deserve to be recognized for their commitment. -Judd Gregg

Opening the Dialogue and Honor the Sacrifice

So, how do we break the silence? It starts with education and empathy. By encouraging a deeper understanding of the complexities and realities of military life, we can bridge the gap between the military and civilian worlds. Ask questions, listen with an open mind, and recognize the humanity in those who wear the uniform.

As we engage in these conversations, do not forget the sacrifices made by military families—the missed birthdays, the deployments, the moments of uncertainty and fear. Their stories deserve to be heard, their experiences acknowledged.

My Final Thoughts

Talking about the military isn’t just about politics or secrecy—it’s about honoring the dedication and sacrifice of those who serve or served and recognizing the shared responsibility we all have in upholding the freedoms they defend. So, break the silence, start the conversation, and honor the men and women of the military for their service and their unwavering commitment to American freedom.

The soldier is the army. No army is better than its soldiers. The soldier is also a citizen. In fact, the highest obligation and privilege of citizens. -Gen. George S. Patton Jr.