Breaking Free from Resentment

"Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves." - Romans 12:9-10 (NIV)

In our meditation on the greatest commandment Jesus gave us, we've explored the importance of love - a reflection of God's love for us. However, in this life, encountering the opposite - hate and resentment - is not uncommon. Hate not only harm our relationships with others but also imprison our own hearts. Resentment and hate often arise from unhealed wounds, misunderstandings, or our fallen human nature. They can show up in our lives as grudges, bitterness, and a lack of forgiveness. Jesus’ command to love sincerely invites us to break free from those chains that can keep us captive.

The freedom Jesus offers isn't just for the day we receive salvation; it is, in fact, the start of the sanctification process, to free us from the bondage of everything that opposes God’s perfect love. When we choose to love sincerely, we are choosing to reject what is evil - not people, but rather the attitudes and actions that lead to pain. We are choosing instead what is good and seeking reconciliation and peace.

Living out this command can be practical. We can do this by making the conscious decision to honor others above ourselves, valuing their well-being and feelings. This doesn't mean neglecting our needs; rather, it's about creating a balance where grace becomes what guides us in our relationships.

Being part of a community, like a Power of 4 group, helps us practice this kind of love, be held accountable, and receive support and encouragement from fellow believers. As we share our struggles and victories with our brothers, we reinforce our commitment to live the way Jesus wants us to live.

Power of 4 Discussion Question:

Reflect on a recent situation where you struggled with resentment or bitterness. How can you practice sincere love and honor others above yourself?