Breaking the Chains of Control: Empowering Children for a Resilient Adulthood

Growing up, many of us have experienced the feeling of powerlessness at some point. It's a common sentiment when children feel misunderstood, unheard, or subjected to criticism and physical abuse. While children might find safety when their parents are in control, they suffer when that control turns into a stifling force.

Controlling parents can significantly impact their children's development, leading to coping mechanisms like repression, withdrawal, or outbursts. These patterns can follow them into adulthood, affecting their decision-making, relationships, and overall well-being.

?? The Legacy of Powerlessness:

As children who felt powerless grow into adults, they may struggle with decision-making due to a fear of disappointing others. They might become people pleasers in their quest for approval, even if it comes at the expense of their own desires. In their professional lives, they might find themselves always seeking to comply, unable to assert themselves. Some may even become controlling themselves, seeking passive partners to maintain control in their relationships.

?? The Path to Empowerment:

However, there is hope! By parenting with compassion and allowing children to make choices, express their feelings, and establish firm but kind boundaries, parents can break the cycle of control. By avoiding threats and punishments and instead focusing on valuing and acknowledging their children's emotions, parents can instil resilience in their kids, impacting their adulthood positively.

?? Benefits in Adulthood - Personal and Professional Lives:

? Confidence and Decision-Making: Children raised in an empowering environment learn to trust themselves and their decisions. This confidence translates into adulthood, enabling them to make choices aligned with their values and goals without fear of judgment.

? Healthy Relationships: Empowered individuals have a stronger sense of self-worth and are better equipped to foster healthy relationships. They can establish boundaries and communicate their needs effectively, leading to more fulfilling personal connections.

? Success in the Workplace: In the professional realm, empowered adults are more likely to seek out opportunities that align with their passions and strengths. They are less likely to tolerate toxic work environments and can assert themselves to advance their careers.

?? Parenting is challenging, and we often rely on what we know or how we were raised. But when parents learn to communicate effectively, respond instead of react, and provide an empowering environment, they lay the foundation for resilient, empowered adults.

As a parent coach, my six-week program, "Stop Reacting and Start Responding," helps parents build a stronger bond with their children, creating a positive, lasting impact on their personal and professional lives.

?? At the end of the day, all parents want: ???? ?? ?? ??

?? Happy kids turned into happy adults.

?? Confident children turned into resilient adults.

?? Independent children turned into self-reliant and financially independent adults.

?? Social skills turned to quality and meaningful relationships in adulthood.

?? Are you ready to make this dream a reality? As a parent coach with specialised expertise, I'm here to support you on this journey of growth and empowerment. ???

?? Unlock Your Full Parenting Potential: ??

Parenting is a journey of self-awareness and continuous learning. Let me help you expand your self-awareness as a parent and enhance your parenting skills, so you can approach each situation mindfully. ?? ♀???

?? Communication and Balance for Harmonious Family Dynamics: ????

Finding the right balance and open communication is essential to creating a harmonious family dynamic. Together, we can address your concerns and fears, allowing you to show up for your family with certainty and love. ????

?? A Healthy Self-Image for a Flourishing Future: ????

By nurturing a child's healthy self-image, we pave the way for a confident and empowered adult. This positivity will radiate into all aspects of their life, setting them up for success and fulfillment. ????

?? Take the First Step: ??

Don't wait to see the positive transformation in your family! Schedule a FREE 30-minute discovery call with me by sending me a direct message to discuss in-depth the incredible benefits of my six-week program for parents that can be delivered online in a private or group setting. https://arletteshohmelian.podia.com/respondvsreactboth

Let's embark on this journey together! ?????

Remember, the key to raising empowered and fulfilled adults lies in your hands. Take action now and let's create a brighter future for your children together! ???? ?? ?? ????

Arlette Shohmelian

Mindset Coach | Parent Coach | Psychologist

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