Blessings or Lessons of Life, or Both?

That is one of the beauties of life – you always find the truths in the paradoxes. 

Regarding relations; if you pay attention to someone’s actions and not only to his or her words, you maybe will see the real person. But the relation can turn out to be a blessing or lesson in your life. You can learn this the hard way or be careful and try to learn from others mistakes.

Perhaps you are craving for a person to fill your empty heart by looking for love or encouragement everywhere. Even in the wrong places. Than that relation can turn out to be lesson instead for a blessing for you.

Most important is that you learn from the lessons of life. Don’t repeat the same mistake over and over again. Making the same mistakes again is really not a mistake; it’s bad choices. Bad choices make good stories only at T-shirts and on the web. 

Sometimes even painful experiences can teach us lessons that we didn’t we needed to know. Wisdom listens to others mistakes, we try to learn. 

For certain things, no matter who tries to teach you lessons about it, sometimes you won’t understand it until you go through it on your own. Sorry to say it, but lessons about life will be repeated until they are learned. But don’t let your happiness depend on something you have lost. 

Forgive and try to avoid being bitter. Grief is like the ocean, it comes in waves, ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm sometimes it’s overwhelming. What we need to do - is learn how to swim. Try to stay floating on the top of the water and avoid sinking and finally drowning.

Even the worst experiences can prove to be your strength in life. You can help others who find themselves in the same difficult situation or relationship. Your affairs in life can be a great blessing for other people.