Be a Blessing, Especially When It’s Hard
Denesha W. Miller, ACC, MBA
Dynamic Leadership Coaching | Leadership Coach | Transforming High-Potential Leaders into Impactful Leaders | Empowering Small Business & Non-Profit Growth Through Strategic Leadership Development | DISC | AI ??| ?? Mom
I recently made a significant shift, stepping away from the comfort of corporate America. Almost three years ago, I launched my business, Dynamic Leadership Coaching, envisioning it as my corporate retirement plan. Fast forward to today – 2 years and 8 months later – that “retirement plan” has become my “right now plan.” Reflecting on this journey, I can’t help but see how life has been guiding my steps, often in ways I hadn’t anticipated.
While I may not consider myself deeply religious, I am grounded in the belief that we’re here to help others. Volunteering and finding ways to give back have always been core to who I am. Now, stepping fully into my “encore career,” I’ve found a new sense of purpose. Coaching came to me first as part of my corporate role, and then it became my calling.
As a leadership and career coach, I have the privilege of talking with people through some of life’s toughest transitions. Whether they're fresh out of college or contemplating retirement after 20-plus years at the same company, they’re all navigating complex emotions. Some are excited about a fresh start, even at the vibrant age of 68. Others are anxious about the uncertainties ahead.
One recent experience stands out. I reached out to a client just to check in, knowing she was on a contract and facing another job search. She reminded me about potential layoffs at big-name companies, stressing that my services are needed now more than ever. Even as she faced her own uncertainty, she expressed gratitude for the call and the support. Together, we talked about how, even in moments of our own doubt, we can still be a blessing to others – whether as a listening ear, a mentor, or a coach.
I’ve lost count of the times I’ve made a simple check-in call, expecting it to be brief, only for it to turn into a deeply meaningful conversation. Sometimes, I’m the only person they’ve spoken to that day, and they’re grateful for the empathy and care. And here’s a little secret – those calls often uplift me as much as, if not more than, the person I’m supporting. They remind me of the quiet power of kindness.
In these challenging times, let’s choose to check on each other. A simple “How are you doing today?” can go a long way. And we might just find that reaching out enriches us in unexpected ways.
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It's inspiring to see the emphasis on connection and kindness, especially in challenging times. Those simple gestures can truly create a positive ripple effect. What strategies have you found most effective in staying connected with others?