The Blessedness of Parenting
Emmanuel Jesuyon Dansu
Assistant Professor, Tohoku University, Sendai, Japan
“Babies are such a nice way to start people.” – Don Herold
Parenting is often described as one of life's greatest joys. It is a unique and profound experience, filled with countless moments of happiness, growth, and learning. When we take on the role of a parent, we are not just raising children; we are also shaping our own lives in meaningful ways.
One of the most remarkable aspects of parenting is the partnership with God in the creation process. This idea brings a sense of awe and wonder. When a child is born, it feels like a miracle. From the moment we hold our baby for the first time, we are filled with a sense of purpose and responsibility. This tiny human depends on us for everything, and it is our duty to nurture and protect them.
As we raise our children, we undergo significant personal growth. Our selfish tendencies are gradually chipped away as we learn to put our children’s needs before our own. In many ways, becoming a parent makes us better individuals. We become more patient, understanding, and compassionate. The experience of caring for another person, who is entirely dependent on us, teaches us to be selfless and generous.
Parenting also gives us a sense of contributing to the sustainability of humanity. By raising children, we are ensuring that the next generation is ready to take on the challenges of the future. It is a blessing to know that we are playing a part in the continuation of human life. Each child we raise is a testament to the enduring spirit of humanity.
Moreover, with the right training and guidance, we have the opportunity to make the world a better place through our children. By instilling values such as kindness, honesty, and respect, we are shaping the future. Our children learn from our actions and words, and they carry these lessons into their own lives. This ripple effect can have a profound impact on society. When we raise our children well, we are helping to create a more just, compassionate, and peaceful world.
The joy of parenting is also found in the everyday moments. Watching our children grow and learn is incredibly rewarding. Their first steps, first words, and first day at school are milestones that fill us with pride and happiness. Each stage of their development brings new challenges and new joys. The laughter and love we share with our children make all the hard work worthwhile.
Parenting is not without its difficulties, of course. There are sleepless nights, endless nappies, and moments of doubt. We worry about our children’s health, safety, and future. But these challenges are part of the journey. They make us stronger and more resilient. The tough times teach us valuable lessons and help us appreciate the good times even more.
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Another beautiful aspect of parenting is the bond we form with our children. This bond is unique and irreplaceable. It is built on love, trust, and countless shared experiences. As our children grow older, this bond evolves, but it remains strong. The connection we have with our children is one of the most precious relationships in our lives.
Parenting also allows us to rediscover the world through our children’s eyes. Their curiosity and wonder remind us of the beauty and magic that exists in everyday life. We get to experience the joy of discovery all over again, whether it is a trip to the zoo, a walk in the park, or a visit to a museum. Our children’s enthusiasm is infectious, and it brings a fresh perspective to our own lives.
The role of a parent also brings a sense of accomplishment. Knowing that we are shaping the future and making a positive impact on our children’s lives is incredibly fulfilling. Each time our children achieve something, whether it is a good grade, a sporting victory, or simply learning to tie their shoes, we feel a sense of pride and satisfaction. These moments of success are a reflection of our hard work and dedication as parents.
Parenting is a journey filled with ups and downs, but it is a journey worth taking. The joy and blessings it brings far outweigh the challenges. It is a privilege to be entrusted with the care and upbringing of another human being. Our children teach us as much as we teach them, and through them, we become better people.
Finally, the blessedness of parenting lies in the deep connection we form with our children, the personal growth we experience, and the knowledge that we are contributing to the future of humanity. It is a journey of love, sacrifice, and immense joy. By raising our children with care and dedication, we have the power to make the world a better place, one child at a time. The rewards of parenting are immeasurable, and the memories we create with our children will last a lifetime.
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