Blaming yourself again?

Blaming yourself again?

The world is crashing down around you, and all you feel like doing is to blame yourself- sounds familiar?

Two words- DO NOT!

People tend to self-blame a lot, and convince themselves that they are just good for nothing.

A person didn’t say hi- "I must have done something wrong!"

A person didn’t come to your party- "Maybe I didn’t invite her well!"

They think that every wrong thing that happens to them, or around them, is somehow their own fault, leaving themselves feel shitty from inside-not to mention losing almost every ounce of confidence they have.

If this happens to you, especially when it is NOT your fault, then finally it’s time to take matter in your own hands.

This is gonna end now! OKAY?

Repeat it with me- That is NOT my fault!

AGAIN!

THAT IS NOT MY FAULT!

Then whose fault it is? Well it’s okay if you know, it’s also okay if you don’t know! Sometimes it’s nobody’s fault, but circumstances are mingled this way that things happen.

And it’s alright!

This is life, and it was never meant to be fair, you know.

There are so many uncontrollable things happening around, which have absolutely nothing to do with you!

You got to accept that. Everyone has their own share of struggles, so do you.

You might have really made a mistake, but you can’t undo it right? Blaming yourself, cursing yourself is NOT THE SOLUTION, OKAY? Even if someone else makes a mistake- BLAME GAME is not gonna take you anywhere!

If things get screwed, well, try to find a real solution to it, not spend your time cribbing or lamenting, or even regretting!

Having a problem-solving attitude, and not panicking would help a lot.

If life is going hard on you, least you can do is not to go hard on yourself!

Remember, there are so many reasons to get upset, but only one is enough to get you going!

So, stop blaming yourself, or anyone else,

and start sorting things out!

HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF!

ALL THE VERY BEST!

Sanghmitra .

Attended NATIONAL P.G. COLLEGE

2 年

Beautiful ??

CA Ruchika Agarwal

CA(Nov'24)????| ??Finance Enthusiast | ??Content Creator (900k+ impressions)??Statutory & Tax Auditor |??Driven by Growth, Dedicated to Excellence ?? ??Amplifying Ideas: From Finance to Memes, Numbers to Narratives

2 年

Much needed somehow ...??

Shubham Shukla

Helping brands & founders to tell their stories on LinkedIn | Personal Brand Builder | LinkedIn Done for You | Generate High Quality Leads While Building A Powerful Personal Brand | Copywriter | LinkedIn Manager

2 年

Why should only forgive others ... why not ourselves too ??

Sanyog Saswadkar

CERTIFIED REIKI GRAND MASTER ( ACHARYA) I help you achieve your goals with Advance /Distance Reiki Healings, Holistic Healings. Vatsalya Foundation ?? Five Elements Healing Centre ?? ??? ???? ????? ??????

2 年

Love this advice Sanskriti.

Tanishq Dhiman

Aspiring CA | B.Com(Hons.) Graduate | U-19 National Level Football player

2 年

I guess it's an universe's sign for me. Thank you Sanskriti Pandey, really needed this one today.??

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