The Blame Game

The Blame Game

Earlier today I read an article in The Guardian from Dr Sharon Shoesmith recounting how she was scapegoated and lost her job following the death of Baby P.

She talked about something I believe social workers face far too much of - blame.

And often without sufficient justification.

Her account of what she endured in no way surprises me.

But what did surprise me, was the information that in the UK on average, there are 58 child deaths by assault or undetermined intent a year, and that child homicides are most commonly caused by a child's parent or step-parent.

What does that tell you about the society in which we are living?

In her article, a Professor Andrew Cooper explains why he thinks society behaves in the way it so often does. Basically he argues that the pain of knowing that children are being harmed is too great to bear and so the perceived incompetence of social workers provides a defence for society against having to tolerate such horrifying knowledge.

I think Professor Cooper's view is correct because we live in a society that would rather seek to criticise, scapegoat and blame social worker's for the death of children; rather than seek to understand the complexities inherent in the social work role, and face the dreadful responsibility of accepting that there are numerous people in society who have, and will continue to kill and injure the most vulnerable people in their family.

Having been a social worker for all of my adult life, I am of the opinion that social workers have always been fraught with or closely associated with blame.

Social workers have long been a very easy target of blame in this society because the public and the media have no clear knowledge of what we actually do.

If you compare social workers to nurses or teachers for example, there is no comparison.

The public and the media know that teachers and nurses provide basically a worthwhile or valued role.

Teachers teach and nurses save lives.

What social workers do in the eyes of the public, is either fail to intervene and save a child's life, or intervene when it's not necessary.

They serve no obvious role in, I suspect, most people's minds.

When you add to the narrative that no one wants to have a social worker visiting them because for parents that is tantamount to accusing them of being a bad parent - and no one ever wants to view themselves in that way - it becomes clearer why social workers are prone to be disliked and thus easy to be scapegoated and blamed.

To compound the difficulty for social workers, the profession is weak - in that it fails to provide a robust defence, or argument in support of its role and usefulness.

Powerful institutions, like the police, the media and others, particularly in a culture of blame, will always seek to shift culpability away from themselves and onto easy targets.

And they will continue to be successful in doing so, until social workers as individuals and collectively as a profession, begin to value themselves far more highly and stand up for themselves.

lynda beat

Guardian and Independent social worker

1 年

as a social worker i work hard to be able to take responsibility for my mistakes and learn from them, however i agree that scapegoating is endemic in our society. Child deaths are so painful for us as professionals as we are expected to protect children but there are times when we cannot through no fault of our own. Michael thank you for your focus on the blame game, it is really good to hear these words and acknowledge our experiences in this job. ??

Richard Marsh

Independent social worker, trauma informed educator, TLSW, adoption and fostering panel member.Supporter of Kinship Care organisations.

1 年

I also think there should be more research on how and why parents harm and kill children and this research should be dispersed to enable a wider and more public discourse. A more informed dialogue should promote a more helpful debate.

Michael Watson

Director at Family Court Coaching

1 年

I agree that it’s totally unrealistic to say this can or must never happen again. Because the reality is that it will, and not always due to social work and other professionals failings. If on average a child is being killed at least once per week in theUK, that does I think point to the enormity of the problem.

回复

Hmm this is a gut turning, complex one!!! Our image as professionals is poor, Social Workers are not valued we are seen very differently from health professionals, who often are also involved in these child death tragedies. One of the mythologies that even we as social workers peddle is that there will be no more child deaths. No doctor would say that another patent will not die. There is a lot to complain about in the UK, but the child protection system is one of the best worldwide. Here is the rub parents not Social Workers kill children, no system will ever be a hundred percent safe.

Richard Marsh

Independent social worker, trauma informed educator, TLSW, adoption and fostering panel member.Supporter of Kinship Care organisations.

1 年

I often wonder if the blame response is closely associated with shame and as this is a group response, shame and blame is externalised? It is hard to find examples of where societies have taken responsibility for internal failings and changed from within to make positive change.

要查看或添加评论,请登录

Michael Watson的更多文章

  • Confirmation Bias

    Confirmation Bias

    When giving your evidence at court it is so important to be balanced in the way you present whatever you have to say…

  • Why The Message Is Important

    Why The Message Is Important

    I have recently immersed myself in the world of Public Speaking and whilst reading a post in connection with it, I was…

  • Level Up The Playing Field!

    Level Up The Playing Field!

    It doesn't matter whether you're going to court due to experiencing domestic abuse, a parent who is separating, or a…

  • The Mystery I Couldn't Fathom!

    The Mystery I Couldn't Fathom!

    It happened a long time ago, yet it still feels like yesterday. I was visiting parents who loathed me because I was the…

    4 条评论
  • How Can You Carry What Are You Carrying Better?

    How Can You Carry What Are You Carrying Better?

    Over thirty years ago I had an experience that I have never been able to forget - and never will! Is that a good thing,…

  • Silence

    Silence

    There is a power in silence and in choosing when, how, and what you intend to say, in response to any question asked of…

  • How Do You Prepare Workers For Court?

    How Do You Prepare Workers For Court?

    If you have been reading some of my articles in my newsletter you may be familiar with my story - a story that has…

  • Feedback and De-Rolling

    Feedback and De-Rolling

    You have just finished giving evidence. It was quite a difficult case, and you're glad it's over with, but you're left…

  • Listening With Your Heart

    Listening With Your Heart

    In every aspect of your life, your ability to listen is key to the outcomes that result. Listening though, involves so…

    1 条评论
  • Why Attitude Is So Important In The Witness Box?

    Why Attitude Is So Important In The Witness Box?

    It occurred to me whilst planning to give a speech about the first time I gave evidence, that there were things…

    1 条评论

社区洞察

其他会员也浏览了