The Biggest Scaredy-Cat

I?used to be the biggest scaredy-cat, so afraid of life.

I have never shared before how until I was about 30 years of age, I used to be afraid of everyone and everything.

- Got bullied by bosses

- Was too afraid to stand up to my ex-husband

- Too shy to help out at my sons’ school

- Did low-skilled work at low pay

- Allowed myself to be talked out of going to university by a well-meaning but misguided spiritual teacher

- Didn’t speak up when others were rude

- Wouldn’t speak my mind when something was wrong

- Once after a job interview, I saw the interviewer’s notes and she had written that I was “extremely nervous”, which was more nervous than I had actually felt!

- Was always confused why I felt invisible at parties when with my more bubbly and confident friends.

It took me YEARS to finally realise that the only person who was going to change my life was ME.

Yes, it was ME!

No one was going to help me until I helped myself. That was the hardest pill to swallow because now I had to take full ownership.

Now I had to see my weaknesses and how I allowed them to continue for decades.

Now I had to admit how I had created my own reality.

And I realised I was the only one who could change my behaviour.

So I decided to grow up and take full responsibility for how I was showing up. I decided to:

1. Empty my bank account on coaching courses.

2. Took out a loan to work with mentors and coaches.

3. Practiced, practiced, practiced my skills until I improved.

4. Worked multiple jobs while I built my coaching business.

5. I still continually invest in further training and mentors to strive to fulfilling my true potential.

My life now is completely transformed.

1. I teach leadership skills to executives and business owners.

2. I run a successful coaching and training business.

3. I am a confident speaker often asked to speak at events.

4. I can walk into any room of strangers and make connections instantly.

By thinking differently I spoke differently.

By speaking differently I acted differently – and people responded to me differently.

My new behaviour formed new habits.

My new habits became my new character.

My new character has given me my new improved reality.

You are UNSTOPPABLE when you understand that every single feeling, every single behaviour and every single result is ALL on you.

So don’t give up.

Stop hiding.

And life will get better.

It really will.

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