The Biggest Failure

The Biggest Failure

So many successful people say that without failure there is no success. To me, the way I see it, is that there are no clear paths to walk every path you take has something challenging that you have to overcome. A path of failures is a path of success. I’ve always been a failure. I keep repeating myself and that’s because it’s just that important to me. I’ve failed over and over again at everything. There have been people in my life that have told me that I am a failure and made me actually believe for a while that I was.

When things just don’t go your way, when all you want to do is make people proud of you and you just feel like no matter what you do that does not happen.

Failure is my fuel. I use my failures, my setbacks and my struggles as my motivation to get out of bed early in the morning and work on my dreams. Most people just give up after trying few times and they settle for what they have. Sometimes it’s hard to wake up in the morning; mind full of demons pulling you down with negative energy feeding you with that there is no point trying any more thoughts. There is no insurance for your broken part, when you are in pain and damaged you have to fix yourself.

Tell me a peaceful place where I can go so I can clear my head and take a break. I tried everything but I’m left with nothing. I’m watching everything fall apart no matter how hard I try I can’t hold on to it. It’s like holding onto a hot coal. So I let go and break the system, now I got a light that’s different from everyone else. Now people can see what separates me from the average.

‘Don’t expect them to understand your hustle, when they don’t have your vision’.

You are not ready to be alone at night working on your dream, you are not ready to stay awake until 2 am or 4 am in the morning working everyday. You want something? Ask yourself did I put in enough work? Did I really give it my all? What did you have to sacrifice? What did you have to give up? What struggle did you have to go through that no one else knows about but yourself? Think of the biggest disadvantages and weaknesses you have. Let me tell you something it’s none of those, it’s YOU!!

I had so many regrets writing my first book, because that book will show a side to me that no one sees or knows, these are thoughts, wisdom, knowledge, experience and struggles that only my mind, soul and my creator knows about. Below is the link to my first book, if you haven't yet, check it out.

But the thing is I know I’m in control, I’m not going to care about what people think about me or what they will see me as because I’m in control. I know I’m unstoppable.

So I might as well look like and sound like a fool. Because end of the day, I know my book will change so many lives, even if it’s one person where they wake up in the morning looking forward to the day or they carry on chasing their dreams after giving up that’s more than enough for me. When people tell you, you can’t do it!! It just makes you want to do it more and prove them wrong. I’ll show you, I’ll show you what I can do!!

Just because you have failed once, doesn't mean you are a failure. It just takes one time!! ONE TIME!! To get it right and then you are set, you just have to keep trying till that one time embraces you like a big tornado and this time you are ready more than ever.

Have you ever went out to try to do something, something different and you come home, knowing that you didn’t give it your all that there was much more you could have done. But you didn’t want to look ugly or look silly because your girlfriend was watching you or your boys were there, so you held back. Now you have all these regrets because you know that you are ten times better than how people actually see you as. Wake up tomorrow and do something different, and understand that if you do the same thing as today? Then you are STUCK. Just because you did something a certain way yesterday doesn't mean you have to do it that way today. If you can’t push your limitations and ideology? what is the point? If there was a rule that says that certain people have more boundaries than you? then that’s understandable. BUT it’s not!! We all have the same chances to push and work hard.

We all have the same 24 hours in a day. So there are no excuses!! Like Malcom X said Do whatever is necessary!! Apologies if I’ve misinterpreted that but you get the point. If a big failure like me could do it, what's stopping you?