Beyond Surface-Level Connections: How to Build Meaningful Relationships
Adeniran Bamisaye
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While interacting with someone I met at a training recently, I shared that I typically connect with people's spirit first before building any kind of relationship with them. This principle has worked for me so far.
Although it is said that first impressions matter, they may not always provide a true reflection of who a person is. Often, when I attend trainings or events, I look forward to meeting people and building meaningful relationships. Should the event not meet my expectation, I would have made some good connections.
At almost every stage and phase of learning, both formal and informal, I seek out individuals whose values and principles align with mine, regardless of their status. For me, character and competence are crucial. My focus is also on what I can learn from such people and the value I can add to them in my unique way.
I must say, I have been fortunate to meet amazing people, and I appreciate everyone who has added value to my life in one way or another. I have been lucky to encounter incredible individuals, so far.
Certain principles have guided me in this process. Let me quickly highlight a few before I close:
* Values are key: This is non-negotiable. I won't compromise on certain things in the name of a relationship; I'd rather withdraw from such relationships.
* Set relationship-building as a goal: It helps a lot.
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* You must have something to offer: Don't enter any relationship without having something tangible to add to the other person's life.
* Build valuable capacity: Be unique and original.
In closing, I will share one of my favorite quotes from Charlie Tremendous Jones: "You are the same person you were five years ago, except for the books you've read, the people you've met, and the places you've traveled." Remember, value is crucial here - it's not just about numbers; quality is what matters most, and that's not necessarily determined by status.
Have an amazing week ahead! ??????
I am Adeniran Bamisaye
Your inspirational friend,
PR Strategist and Wellness Advocate