Beyond Likes: Why Speaking Your Truth Matters at Work
Christina Olsen
Your Success is my Passion | I help you Create a Culture of Well-Being for Personal and Business Success | Investor | Advisor | Board Member | Visionary Leader
We've all been there: the pressure to be liked at work and at home. We navigate the complexities of office dynamics, strategize for promotions, and strive to build strong relationships. But what happens when those relationships seem to crumble when you speak your truth?
The Shift:
Let's be honest - sometimes those work relationships are more transactional than genuine. People may gravitate towards you based on shared goals, career aspirations, or even just proximity within the company structure. However, when you choose to speak your truth, particularly when it challenges the status quo, those superficial connections often falter.
Speaking Your Truth and Finding Your Tribe:
When you speak your truth, especially when it goes against the norm, it can feel isolating. I have been there. I have lost or been isolated in relationships (personal and professional) along my life path for speaking up. I have learned some connections may fade, but this is a sign of strength. You're breaking free from the "likeability trap" and aligning yourself with your values. This attracts others who resonate with your authenticity – these are the connections that truly matter.
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Embrace the Journey:
Think of your career as a puzzle you're constantly building. Some connections will be fleeting, while others will become valuable life long supporters on your professional journey. Embrace the learning opportunities that come with both types of relationships.
The Power of Courage:
The right decision isn't always the easy one. Taking a courageous stance, even if it means facing disapproval, can lead to personal and professional fulfillment. Authenticity ultimately strengthens your brand and allows you to contribute meaningfully to your team and organization and ultimately the world around you.
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Remember, popularity fades, but authenticity resonates. Be courageous, speak your truth, and build a network that supports your journey towards a fulfilling career. Thank you for reading this and being part of my network and journey, I appreciate each and everyone of you.
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4 个月I love this, Christina!! You are truly the definition of authentic. While it wasn’t always “roses” (mostly because of the unfortunate superficial relationships that crossed our paths) I always knew that you were sincere and trying your best to do what was right. Very thankful for you - even if we don’t talk often!!
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4 个月Absolutely, Christina! Authenticity is the key to building genuine connections at work. It's refreshing to see this perspective being shared. Thanks for highlighting this!