Beyond Black Friday: 3 Mindful Shopping Strategies for Lasting Style Success
Morgan Wider
Speaker - Workshop Facilitator - Executive Image Consultant - Podcast Host - Book Author - I help executives, employees and college students show up "Authentically Appropriate" and increase their Executive Presence
Hi There,?
Now that we are officially in Thanksgiving Week, the Black Friday emails are flooding our inboxes, I want to take a moment to share something deeper than just another sale.
True style transformation isn't about collecting more pieces—it's about building a wardrobe that empowers you to show up as your most authentic self.
Throughout my nine years as a stylist working with individuals and groups, I've witnessed how the 'Black Friday mindset' isn't limited to one day of the year. With endless sales, promotional emails, and social media ads promising 'unmissable deals,' we're constantly tempted to buy items we never wear, succumbing to the pressure of 'amazing deals,' and ending up with closets full of regret rather than confidence. This cycle isn't just costly to your wallet—it's costly to your confidence and our planet.
Before you dive into the Black Friday frenzy, here are my updated Smart Shopping strategies for 2024:
1. Shop Your Strategy, Not the Sales Take a moment to check in with both your closet and yourself before clicking 'buy.' Ask yourself: Would I buy this at full price? Will this item honor my body shape and true size—not the size I wish I was? Will this item bring me joy and make me feel like the most authentic version of myself? If the answer to any of these is no, it's not really a bargain.
2. Calculate Cost-Per-Wear Instead of focusing on the discount percentage, think about how many times you'll actually wear the item. Consider your real lifestyle—not your fantasy one. Will you really wear those 4-inch heels when you're running between meetings? A $200 investment on stylish and comfortable heels?that fits your true lifestyle and you'll wear 50 times has a better cost-per-wear than a $40 'bargain pair of flats' that sits unworn in your closet.
3. Mind Your Mindset Notice if you're shopping from a place of lack ("I have nothing to wear") or abundance ("I'm investing in pieces that serve my vision"). Don't let FOMO or artificial urgency cloud your judgment—most "limited time offers" come around again. This simple awareness can transform your shopping habits and your closet.
If you're ready to break free from the cycle of mindless consumption and create a wardrobe that truly serves you, I'm thrilled to invite you to join my transformative Style, Shopping & Soul Online Course.
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This isn't just another style course—it's a complete framework for understanding the WHY behind your shopping habits and the HOW of building a wardrobe that empowers you.?
As a special Black Friday offer, I'm inviting you to join our January 11th, 2025 cohort at 50% off the regular price of $1,247. This investment provides:
To join Style, Shopping & Soul , use code FRIDAY until Monday, November 25th to secure your spot at this special rate.
Remember, the greatest investment you can make this Black Friday isn't in more stuff—it's in the skills and mindset to build a wardrobe that truly serves you. Whether through my course community, one-on-one styling work, or speaking engagements, I'm here to help you create a style that's authentically, confidently, unabashedly YOU.
Wishing you and yours a warm and grateful Thanksgiving filled with joy,
Yours in Style, Shopping & Soul, Morgan
P.S. Ready to transform your relationship with style and shopping? Lock in your 50% savings before Monday with code FRIDAY. Your future self (and closet) will thank you!
Image Consultant | Speaker | Stylist. Positioning women of color leaders for career success by unlocking their bold, authentic style ?
2 个月Yassss drop the gems ??????
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3 个月Very good insights honestly !
Global Brand Marketing Strategist | Entertainment Marketing | 2023 WiT Wonder Woman Winner | 2023 ADCOLOR Leader | 2025 BECA Playbook Future Leader
3 个月This is terrific, Morgan! I always feel confident and beautiful each time I work with you. Your fashion and styling advice are invaluable!
Speaker - Entrepreneur - Author
3 个月Love all of your talent and assistance with looking and feeling my best. You bring out the best in all of your clients and how they show up to shine ?
Mentorship Community Coordinator at Upnotch
3 个月What an insightful approach to shopping and style transformation! Shopping with intention not only saves us from regret but also helps us build a wardrobe that truly reflects who we are. Your strategies resonate deeply, and your Style, Shopping & Soul course sounds like the perfect opportunity for those ready to take their personal style to the next level. For women in business seeking to elevate their personal and professional presence, mentorship can be a game-changer. I encourage you to join us at Upnotch, where leaders and entrepreneurs connect to grow, learn, and support one another. Let’s empower each other to show up as our most authentic selves, both in style and in leadership