Beware of your own influence

The teenager ignores the parents, following street authorities. The patient does not trust doctors, doing self-medication. The relative will listen to TV rather than to the candidate of necessary sciences with a decent experience.

It is not about trust, but about the number of influencers. Verbal care is sweet and feigned. Councils are discounted by anticipation. Do you want to protect, anticipate, warn? But who called, asked and waited? Nobody ... and will listen to recommendations, as a speech was assigned to him.

In need of knowledge, we are looking for a teacher, having an itchy problem we call the master. Consciously, asking for help, for our own will. Respondent does not have to prove the qualification, he not treat attempts – a custom action is expected. Without doubt and conditions, approaches and prefaces.

The ranting starts off by attack, reproach, reproof. Waiting for gratitude, payment, praise. Blindly addresses: “It will be better like this”. Good impulses, a vicious method, an unseasonable hour. Closer whispers – stronger desire to dodge, to avoid the unexpected mercy.

Blatant – bothersome, silent – arrogant. For the time being. Until the hour comes. Storm makes to look on the pillars, propping silence, saving forces. Gray hair, experience, age is not taken into account – the gut feeling of helmsmen tells the way out, beyond the bustle of the labyrinth of anxieties.

You can help the looking forward one, helping the unstable is utopia. No wind will be a by-passing for those who does not know where to swim. You need a task, complexity, purpose, request. Then a clue, ingenuity, savvy will be useful and helpful.

Impact is a tension of a string, not a threat to throw a bow. Determination is a trigger, not unsteady doubts. Extraction is the usefulness of the trophy, not the ringing sound of the shot. You know what you want – act, be noble – desire, know how – influence. When the host is mature enough, he will assess and apply your help.

The threat of force is weakness, bribery – vulgarity. Prestige, power, position - a boring farce. Sex, belt and excommunication – the last century. Arsenal is limited by imagination – it is easier to push than to excel. Amateurs knocks in ears, masters – hide in the wilderness.

The artisans are busy with their craft, the chatterers are preaching and compete in halftones. They exercise in confrontational feedback, expecting that tomorrow there will be more eccentrics. The hard-bitten ones get into trouble, not noticing attacks, because they know that attempts influence and the world is being changed.

Fat one advises to lose weight, the slacker teaches not to look around, lazy one will explain – do not start. It is logical, slim and understandable, but it is so unpleasant in my heart! Solid clever men are around and any trouble is only your fault. Well, I understood it, so dulled my gaze, but have pretended for other king of conversation.

“I”: will not help here, give us practical methods for the struggle. However, the bunch of clever men change the verdict: “We knew it”. Well, if they knew, why kept silent or did they soundlessly shout all the time? Do difficulties and blunder procrastination bring joy?

The old Isaac, who is Newton, came up with the idea that if you apply the force, you can be punched back. I hope, understood why, it is necessary to fight yourself: onlookers are interested to stare when somebody tries. Moreover, the stronger you struggle, the louder will be heard the noiseless booming whine of the dogs, and will you face the wave of zero assistance.

Not everyone can tow – not all want to pay. The desire to go with the flow disturbs the spur to influence. Authority is saved for the future, in order to accumulate an imposing weight – may be power will come at once – then will accelerate right up to heaven.

We do not turn on the charm - the far-off light is dangerous and awakening is delegated those who face the dawn. We are not afraid of contagion – there are no infections, we are excited by the limit of pain and fly to the light that is called “power”.

Interference instantly will disperse the clouds of sadness, we do not need your advice imperishable, well, shut up, because other way I will explode. And do not hurry me, I mark the way with the deeds, if you want to help – stand by side, and do not dare to blow my brains.

Author: Oleg Braginsky

Source: New Retail

Translation: Daniil Shmitt