Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.
Dr Timothy Low ,PBM,Author,CEO,Board Director
CEO & Bd Dir * EVP & Bd Adv QuikBot * AUTHOR * Investment Cslt Healthcare * Bd Adv AUM Biosciences * VP Med Affairs * LinkedIn Most Viewed Healthcare CEO in Singapore 2017 * LinkedIn Top Motivational Speaking Voice 2024
There’s a subtle but significant difference between adding value to a conversation and merely contributing noise.
At times, the most impactful thing you can do is to stay silent.
This might feel counterintuitive—especially when the urge to voice your opinion or defend your stance is strong.
Yet, psychology and life experience consistently demonstrate that silence, when applied thoughtfully, holds tremendous power.
I learned this lesson the hard way in my younger days. I recall being in a pivotal business meeting, brimming with ideas I was eager to share.
The moment an opening appeared, I jumped in without hesitation.
In my haste, I unintentionally interrupted my boss mid-sentence.
The awkwardness that followed was palpable.
That experience taught me a vital truth: silence isn’t just about politeness—it’s about respect.
It’s about giving others the space to articulate their thoughts fully, without interruption.
Active listening, which includes the discipline of remaining silent while others speak, transforms us into better communicators and builds stronger, more trusting relationships.
Silence can convey understanding, empathy, and the acknowledgment of another’s perspective.
Before you rush to fill the quiet, pause and reflect: would your words add value, or are they simply filling space?
The Power of Silence in Uncertainty
Silence is equally valuable when you're uncertain of your facts.
Consider this: the human brain can hold information equivalent to about one terabyte of storage—a massive capacity. But quantity doesn’t equate to accuracy.
We don’t always have the right data readily available, and that’s okay.
In moments of uncertainty, speaking without solid knowledge risks spreading misinformation and undermining your credibility.
Silence, on the other hand, offers you the chance to listen, learn, and respond thoughtfully when you’re confident in your facts.
This act of restraint signals humility, a quality that earns respect and deepens trust.
It also showcases your willingness to prioritize learning over the ego-driven need to speak.
As the old adage goes: “Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.”
Silence isn’t passive; it’s intentional.
Whether to listen, reflect, or gain clarity, it’s an active decision that empowers your presence in any conversation.
In the rush to speak, don’t underestimate the profound impact of simply staying quiet.
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3 个月Always very insightful words, Dr Timothy Low ,PBM,Author,CEO,Board Director
Experienced business development professional clinical research Phase I to Phase IV.
3 个月Good morning! Very informative, thanks. Have a great week ahead ??
a singaporean female, a sociable introvert, wife to a loving husband, and a fan of anime, books, and coffee (in that order).
3 个月silence can be used as a tool. my mum's fave method for discipline is to give me the silent treatment when i was younger.