Better to Look Interesting?

Get Hit On All the Time

Everyone has that friend who gets hit on constantly — even though she may not be the prettiest girl in the group. Whether that bitch (kidding…kind of) realizes it or not, she's using silent cues that men inherently have a hard time resisting.

"More than 50 percent of all communication is done via body language and gestures," explains body-language expert Janine Driver.

And it doesn't take long to size someone up subconsciously. "A guy will decide within 7 seconds of looking at you if he wants to talk to you." (You make the same snap judgment about him.)

The pressure may be on, but projecting an alluring image in that tiny window of time is actually pretty easy. Just use these wordless pickup tricks and any guy who is lucky enough to look your way will feel the sudden urge to come say hi.

Dress to Thrill

Even though stripes and patterns are in right now, single shades convey more power and trustworthiness: Solid colors equal a solid person. Unless you're rocking a tiny cocktail dress or other overtly sexy outfit, avoid all black since it makes you look like a no-nonsense boss ….— yawn.

A subtle adjustment of your clothing — we're talking straightening out a wrinkled skirt, not meticulously lint-brushing your entire outfit — shows guys that you want to look good for them, which boosts their ego.

Yes, men find heels sexy. But that stiletto is even sexier when it's dangling off your toes. A half-off shoe shows that you have a playful mind-set and you're not planning on going anywhere.

But if your legs are crossed when you do it (or anytime they're crossed, for that matter), make sure your top leg is the one farthest away from the guy you're into. Otherwise, he'll get the impression that you're closed off.

For maximum man magnetism, show off your shoulders with a strapless dress or sleeveless shirt. Bare shoulders plant one thought in a dude's brain: boobs. And as long as you're working your shoulders, shrug them forward ever so slightly when you meet a guy's gaze.

Lean on the bar with one arm so you don't look rigid or uncomfortable. The stiffer you stand, the more you look like you don't want to be bothered.

And while confidence is sexy, don't take it too far by standing with your hands on your hips. You may think you look like Wonder Woman, but without the hot pants, you just look unapproachable.

You've heard the expression "looking down your nose at someone." Well, don't do it. (In fact, lowering your chin slightly so that you're looking up at people is extremely flirtatious and alluring.) And don't cross your ankles in front of you — it tells guys you'd rather be someplace else.

Kinda shy? Stand in the middle of a group of people — you'll talk more and appear especially popular, which raises your status in his eyes.

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Thank you …In today’s world, appearances matter. You want to look good to attract the opposite sex. And since men are more visually inclined than women, it’s easier to get them interested and keep them that way by looking good.

However, women don’t always know what kind of look is going to attract men. They think that because all fashion models are tall and skinny (and usually blond), that this is the type of look that men like. 

However, keep in mind that these standards are generally set by people in the fashion industry and not men in general. 

What real men are looking for is usually quite different. Here are a few ways in which you can dress to attract men:

Emphasize Your Curves.  It’s true. Real men like curves. They don’t always go for tall, skinny girls. In fact, 90% of the time, men prefer women with a little bit of meat on their bones.

So don’t try to hide your curves underneath your clothing. Don’t wear loose clothes which make you look bigger than you are. Instead, wear well-fitting clothes that show your curves. 

But don’t go overboard. Not everything has to be made of spandex!

Let Your Hair Down.  It’s an evolutionary thing. Men like women with long, lush hair because it shows that the women is healthy and fertile. 

She’ll be able to have a lot of babies. Nowadays, everyone may not want to have babies but the attraction to fertile, long-haired women has become a part of men’s genes. 

Wear Red. The color red serves as a trigger for most men. When presented with photographs of women in red, black or any other color, men will always point to the woman in red as being the most attractive, even if she doesn’t have the best figure.

Even if your whole outfit isn’t red, you can add a few red touches in terms of lipstick or a handbag.

Use Pheromone Perfume.  As we all know, biology plays an important role in attracting people to each other.

So why not make it work for you by using pheromone perfume? Different types of pheromones have different effects. So you can use this to your advantage. 

Make yourself more sexy or easier to talk to, depending on what you’re looking for in a relationship.

Be Confident.  No matter what you wear, nothing attracts a man like a confident woman. When you’re confident, you stand straighter and look people in the eye. 

This gives men a chance to see your face and appreciate it. Plus, standing straight also helps to emphasize your curves. And when you’re confident, you walk in a way that will make men turn to look at you. So do whatever makes you feel confident.

Want to add word or two? 

Although no one would ever guess, I tend to want to vigorously mate with any somewhat healthy and attractive woman I see in a pair of skinny jeans.

Doesn’t matter if she’s short, tall, curvy, slender, or muscular- as long as her hygiene is okay and she’s not grossly overweight, I’m probably going to enjoy the view.

Gym clothes are even better, honestly.

 They’re so tight and revealing! Sure, girls probably just wear them because they’re comfortable but it doesn’t make it any less sexy.

 It almost makes it hard to focus on working out.

Your comment ….?  

You are not from women who scream online and wherever, that to approach is harrassing women in streets. Guys will also check your profile and your footsteps online to see what your views are.

So if i’s a guy who knows you he will do his homework and anything can put him off especially selfies, negativity about life and most of all talking on forums about why men…shouldn’t approach women in streets.

This is the digital age as well and guys are now savvy with these tools.

So your behaviour in being approachable is going to make you standout so fast you won’t believe.

You know many guys fear rejection and you know it’s entirely about the way you dress but your behaviour offline and..yes..online.

• It’s not that you don’t exist.
• It’s not that you wear makeup or don’t.
• It’s not that you are tall or short.
• It’s not that you got a pinky hair or flowing long hair.
• It’s not even you wear clothes from charity or trendy shop.

It’s because you are..approachable or you’re not approachable. When you act unapproachable, it doesn’t matter how pretty a woman is. Her behaviour shows she is..not..available.