Better Emotional Maturity

*Unlearning* is important in life than learning.

We always find a jar of coffee beans in the perfume store. Why is it there ? Is there something we can learn? A handful of coffee beans are so important to sell an expensive bottle of perfume.

How ?

When we try perfumes, after 4th or 5th trial, we are unable to distinguish between fragrance. Now, the vendor brings in the jar of coffee beans & makes us smell it.

And we undergo a process of unlearning...

Due to coffee's strong fragrance, our brain now only remembers coffee. We can now start testing perfumes again. All of this happens within in a minute.

What's the unlearning?

We have an amazing power to unlearn & move on to new things. We got it as it is an important process of evolution. With ego getting predominant, we forget how to "let it go". Letting go is called unlearning. Creativity & productivity gets enhanced when we learn to let things go.

What things you need to unlearn ?

1) Past failures / disappointments

2) Relationships which are not cordial

3) People who have exploited / hurt

4) Emotional entanglements

5) Unwanted informations / data

Key Points :

Unlearning is important to enjoy numerous fragrances that come along ...

Unlearning is not forgetting. Unlearning is Letting Go which needs to be done consciously

Let's learn to let it go. In our personal & professional lives ...

PriyanshSingh Patel