Better or Bitter ??

Better or Bitter ??

Change.

A simple word that is infinite in how it can be defined, measured and approached. There are countless articles, training courses, books and opinions on what change is/isn't and how to approach it when it occurs. That seems ironic to me because if change is hard to define, how can a model be derived to effectively address the various components (that ultimately lead to more change.)

You see, change can't be contained. We keep trying to put controls on everything because we assume that control will limit change. It doesn't and can't. Change is a continuum and I think that it would be better to address an aspect than try and cover everything.

When change happens we have a choice on how we respond. That is something we can absolutely control (if we're intentional.) The challenge is that few people are intentional. We tend to react when change occurs. That may be instinctual or learned. The reality is that it is our first step because our emotions get the best of us. This isn't right or wrong. It just is how we're wired.

The difficulty with being purely reactionary towards change is that our choice is usually negative. Don't believe me? Think of the last 3 to 5 changes that happened which affected you. How did you respond? I'll let you think about that. So, since change occurs continually and our responses tend to be initially negative, it can lead to bitterness. It can also make us jaded which isn't healthy. Seriously. Don't you get tired of viewing change as if the worst possible scenario is going to happen?

Change can't only be problematic. If we see change as being something that propels us backwards in order to catch up, how can we ever improve? If the only reason to work is to fix problems, then why work? I think there's another choice. I think change makes things better.

Now, I know that there are changes that don't have positive outcomes. I'm not trying to be utopian or naive - just intentional. There are so many stories where people have faced incredibly difficult circumstances and they had an outlook that is such an example of optimism that it seems surreal. I hope that that level of challenge isn't something you're currently facing or will have to face.

Assuming that our changes are more within the realm of our day-to-day existence, then let's position ourselves positively. Let's look at change as something that can lead to things being better. It is hard to do, but the effort is worth it. Seeing things that change as an opportunity and not as an obstacle is much more fulfilling. Please note that this isn't a call to perfection because you will stumble. That isn't negative at all. It's another chance to do things better !!

This week make the switch and stop being bitter and choose to be better.

 

Change always provides new information from which to learn. Learning makes you better!

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Ken Cavellier

Sales Management & Training Professional Bringing Teams Together.

7 年

Change always presents new opportunities! It is a matter of perspective. Better not Bitter!

Kevin J. Epley SPHR, SHRM-SCP, CPSP

Veteran Human Resources Professional

7 年

Not all change is good, but we must find the good in all that changes.

Shannon Brander

Director Human Resources

7 年

Change is always an opportunity to do it better, to make it different and to make it as positive a transition as possible!

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