Best Way to Start Changing our Mindset

Change your mind meaning you are changing your world.

Let me explain how it should be started in order for you to achieve the changes, we may discuss a few things to start up changing on the current situation to a "NEW ME" and it is actually not necessary for someone to start judging you by the first impression they seeing you.

In order to achieve that or achieving the goals, it needs to be matched with your aspirations or if not, it may hold you back from being what you wanted to be.

Some of the tips we may discuss it.

1. Change your intentions - If you keep saying to yourself that you not good because it will direct reflection of your mindset. Change your negative inner voice to an empowerment speech. Sounds cliché, but telling yourself “I can do this” or “I got this”, really works.
2. Change your Language - If you always look back on your habit, you will never change. Furthermore, make it a habit to talk about the things that are going well in your life instead of complaining and talking about your problems. This will encourage a mindset of abundance instead of fear and lack.
3. Learn & Apply - Read books from great minds to understand and adapt to their thinking. Read books about how the mind and brain work or listen to the Podcast. Learn from mindset experts through online courses, events, and coaching.
4. Surround yourself with positive people - Start hanging out with people that are very successful. It is easier to adopt a new mindset when you see that it is already working for other people. Learn how they think and adapt their daily habits to match their mindset. Almost anybody in any situation can apply these lessons to their own lives and increase their positive attitude. As you might imagine, positive thinking offers to compound returns, so the more often you practice it, the greater benefits you’ll realize.

1. Focus on the good things, even small - When you encounter such a challenge, focus on the benefits, no matter how slight or unimportant they seem. For example, if you get stuck in traffic, think about how you now have time to listen to the rest of your favourite podcast. If the store is out of the food you want to prepare, think about the thrill of trying something new.
2. Turn Failure into lessons - You aren’t perfect. You’re going to make mistakes and experience failure in multiple contexts, at multiple jobs and with multiple people. Instead of focusing on how you failed, think about what you’re going to do next time—turn your failure into a lesson. Conceptualize this in concrete rules. For example, you could come up with three new rules for managing projects as a result.
3. Find humour in bad situations - Allow yourself to experience humour in even the darkest or most trying situations. Remind yourself that this situation will probably make for a good story later and try to crack a joke about it. Say you’re laid off; imagine the most absurd way you could spend your last day or the most ridiculous job you could pursue next.