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Ben Howard
?? Coffee Lover ?? Former Finance Professional That can help you ?? Boost Your Confidence ???? Love Your Body & ?? Master Your Mind Finance / Career / Fitness / Confidence
Most people see & apply this model in reverse?
?Believing that there is a requirement to ???????? certain things – be those more money, time, experience etc?
?Before being able to ???? something important – start a business, pursue a passion, go on holiday?
And only when those things exist can you ???? the person you wish – more successful, wealthier, fitter & in better shape?
?This approach is flawed, though?
?It will always lead to you chasing your tail as you will forever say things like…?
?“?? ??????’?? ???????? ?????? ????????”?
“?? ??????’?? ???????? ???????????? ??????????”?
“??’?? ?????? ?????????????????????? ????????????”?
?However, if you flip the model on its head, this is where the magic happens!?
?When you start with ????ing the person you want to?
?You start ????ing the things that type of person does?
?And you will then ???????? all of those things you want?
?You want the promotion, but currently believe that you don’t have enough experience, so your current approach is to simply work harder & harder, until you are totally exhausted & then believe it can’t be worth all the effort?
?Instead, ????lieve you are that person, in that role – model the things that person would ????, until you ???????? that role?
?You want to ????come fitter & healthier, but right now tell yourself you don’t have the time, or experience?
????come that person, ???? what that person would ????, until you ???????? that body, that confidence & more!?
?A wise old manager of mine once said this, & it always stuck with me…?
?“?????? ???????? ?????????? ???????? ???????????????????? ???????????????? ???? ?????? ?????? ????????…???? ??????’?? ?????????????? ???? ?????????? ?????? ??????!”?
?If you wait until you ???????? everything in place, it will ?????????? happen!?
?Start ????ing that person first!?