Belong to Yourself: Finding Joy in Solitude
Darshan Patel
B2B EDI Integration Mastermind | Architecting the future of supply chain & logistics
Knowing how to belong to yourself is an art in a world where everyone is finding their home in others.
I might sound a little rude, but here is a truth about life: "Nothing stays forever."?
People whom you love today will leave you or you might have to leave them or they might change People cannot stay by your side 24/7. We have built a world where chasing success requires going miles away from family and friends shifting to a new city for a new job or leaving home for college. Life and people change. Our priorities change.?
And in that case, if you never learned 'how to belong to yourself', you will end up feeling lonely every time someone leaves you. You should keep your heart ?open for your loved ones so they can walk in and make you feel loved. You should enjoy the company of those you love. But you should also learn 'how to enjoy your own company.'
Make your life your little garden where you have all types of flowers, as in people and interests and hobbies, So that you always have something or someone to love and receive love. Have friends you love, enjoy the hobbies you are passionate about and adore your pets. Create things and build that relationship around you that keeps you excited so that love is always around you in every form. Life will be more colourful that way.?
Learn to belong to yourself without feeling the need to be with others. Where there is a need, there is a settlement. You will settle for less.
But when you are satisfied with yourself, being with others won't come out of your desperation but rather from a genuine connection based on love and care for one another. You will be able to select who you want to be with rather than living at the mercy of others to be selected. And if you want to learn how to be satisfied with your own life and build a life that makes you feel proud of yourself, let's learn to use your alone time as your growth time. Shall we?
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