Being Your True Self Isn’t Easy | But Here’s How I Made It Work

There’s a common saying that you should show up as your true authentic self and I know that’s easier said than done. But here’s what I’ve learned over the years... when you start showing up as your true self, things get easier, effortless, and organic. Life has one less thing causing friction.

I realized that showing up as my true self was more about polishing who I am, adding some professional development, and layering in self-reflection. This made all the difference in how I could be myself in any space.

We’re all dynamic, multifaceted, and we adapt as we go. Adapting doesn’t mean you’re being "fake" or "not keeping it real". Yeah, bring your core self into every space with integrity and a sense of purpose and room to adapt as needed. When you do that, you can navigate any environment plus stay true to your morals and who you are.

I’ve learn with enough life experience, professional growth, and self-reflection you can truly demonstrate an authentic version of yourself that gets results without having to be anything but you.

CALL TO ACTION: 3 Ways to Show Up as Your Authentic Self and Still Get Results Even When the Odds Are Against You.

Take a moment today to reflect on something you've been told is 'undesirable' and flip it. How can you polish that part of yourself and bring it confidently into your next meeting?

Make connecting with others intentional this week get past the small talk. Find those deeper "pebbles of connection" that can bridge the gap when you’re standing across the pond from someone, metaphorically speaking.

Challenge yourself to adapt without losing your core leave room for optimism and think about a space where you can confidently show up as the best version of yourself.