About being Single

What’s so bad about being single?.... It depends on who you ask.

Being single is just a status, not destiny. I love being single. I can come and go as I please and stay out as late as I want to. It will take a very special someone to get me to change my relationship status again. Single and ready to get nervous around anyone I find attractive.

This myth that single women universally suffer in their singlehood is deeply entrenched in the hearts and minds of many parents, co-workers, and friends. 

There’s fizzy anticipation of going out on a Friday night and possibly meeting a great guy or a girl.

You have time to hang out with your friends. And none of them complains they never see you anymore. Hello, brunch.

 The only person you have to spoil is yourself.              

 You get to skip all the drama that might come along with a romantic relationship.

And being single means you have plenty of time to have fun and mingle as much as you want. Not a bad deal.

 You never have to feel guilty about flirting.

 You don’t have to worry about getting your heart-broken.

 Best friends make the worst enemies.

 Your Father is the only man in this world who is not jealous of your success.

 Too much agreement kills a chat.

 She will date you for your looks. She will marry him for his money.

 No revenge is the best revenge. Every forever comes with an expiry date.

 Karma is myth. Not everyone gets what they deserve.

 Some people have sugar on their lips but venom in their heart.

 A hungry stomach, an empty pocket and broken heart teaches the best lessons of life.

How does the fear of being single affect someone’s romantic life?

Decision The finding, keeping, or leaving of a romantic relationship requires decision making, and these decisions are not always simple. 

Ideally, the choice to begin or maintain a relationship might reflect a careful weighing of responses to such questions as:

Does he add joy to my life?

 Do we share the same goals? 

 Will she give as much to this relationship as I will?

These factors are tied to important predictors of relationship quality and stability, such as satisfaction and commitment This means that the fear of being single may influence individuals’ relationship decisions.

When looking for love, the fear of being single has a profound influence on the types of choices people make. On one hand, evidence suggests that men and women who fear being single report maintaining high standards for those whom they might date

But what people say and what people do can be quite different. When asked about the dating desirability of different partner profiles, women with a strong fear of being single are quite the opposite of selective. Instead, they appear to be fairly non-discriminating, perceiving less caring and less considerate dating prospects as attractive as more responsive candidates

Further, while they might say they would date only highly attractive people, the more men or women strongly fear being single the more they tend to show romantic interest in unattractive partners. Finally, during a speed-dating scenario, people with a stronger fear of being single indicated interest in a larger number of potential partners, which is motivated by the desire to avoid being alone.

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Thank you….Single women set the rules.

It doesn’t get much better than this. The only person you have to debate about life-altering decisions is yourself. There’s no compromise needed when you’re single. You don’t have to worry about pleasing anyone else. You also don’t have to worry about whether your actions will affect your significant other. You’re in complete control.

When you’re single, cleaning is less of a chore and more of an option. My space is my space and my cleanliness doesn’t affect anyone but me. Oh, what a relief it is to come home and kick off my shoes, leaving them wherever they land. I’ll move them when I get good and ready.

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I can’t explain how good it feels to book a flight somewhere fun without having to consult with another person first. I absolutely love to travel and I couldn’t imagine the limitations a relationship, specifically a marriage, would put on trip planning.

Can we both agree on a destination?

Can we both get time off of work?

Can we afford this trip?

These are questions I never have to deal with. When I want to go somewhere, I go. It’s that simple.

I actually don’t mind cooking, but I wouldn’t want to do it if it felt like it was an obligation. I’m also a very picky eater so I don’t have to worry about catering to anyone else’s taste buds but mine. Going to the grocery store every week is a task. I eat out more often than not. This isn’t very expensive when you’re single but it can become quite costly when eating for two.

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Being single is a time to be self-absorbed. Focus on you, your goals and your dreams. I take full advantage of this opportunity every day. My selfishness isn’t detrimental to anyone else. In this case, it’s actually a true benefit.

 I’m becoming a better person by concentrating on me. It can be difficult to know what drives you when someone else is in the car riding along. Don’t be afraid of your self-seeking ambition. There’s no better time to embrace it.

Spending time alone gives you the opportunity to realize your true worth. Once you discover that inner happiness, you won’t allow just anyone in your life. While the person you choose shouldn’t be the sole creator of that joy, he should definitely add to it. Anything less would be unacceptable.

There’s something to be said about a woman who’s able to stand on her own two feet. Sure, many of us desire love and relationships, but we know our lives don’t revolve around just that. When you can make things happen for yourself, it gives you the confidence to conquer the world.

Your zodiac sign might tell you loads about your good (and not so good) personality traits, but what about your hottest qualities?

You’re fiercely independent, which is instantly attractive to a partner because you carry yourself with strength and a totally badass attitude. But this quality also translates into heat in the bedroom because you’re a Ram who’s not afraid to take the reigns and get what she wants during intimacy.

It’s your effortless confidence and quiet strength that make you attractive and cause you to be the center of attention wherever you reign. It’s no surprise that romantic partners gravitate towards you when you walk into a crowded room without you doing anything to demand that attention, which is hot as hell. Your confidence also means that you don’t hold back due to inhibitions in the bedroom.