Being selfish is wrong?

Being selfish is wrong?

Do you find yourself putting your needs last?

Are you exhausted, irritable, and frustrated with the people around you?

Do you feel like you are enduring life, not enjoying it?

It’s easy to get bogged down by our life experiences and feel as though we are trapped by the events, challenges, and people in our lives.

Along the way, we forget about ourselves and our well-being.

We lose our awareness of what we are doing and find ourselves dissatisfied with what’s going on in our lives and the pain we have to endure.

But things don’t have to be this way.

There is a way to stop the constant story we find ourselves in and observe what is actually happening. Some people think this is selfish. That’s why I say being selfish is a good thing.

When we are able to focus solely on our experience, we can develop the self-awareness muscle that allows us to be more aware of our own reactions.

Then we enter the ‘control room’ of our consciousness. We know the effect of our choices and step into response instead of reaction within our relationships.

Once this happens, you will have an ‘ah-ha’ moment. You’ll recognize that there is NOTHING wrong with you!

At any given moment in time, you have the power to see things in a new light. You simply have to take the time and space to observe your reality and transform the way you see it. And this naturally leads to being a better leader, manager, partner, colleague, and friend to those closest to you.

I want to show you how to be selfish—the right way. If you want to replace feelings of uncertainty, frustration, and exhaustion with freedom, inner peace, and trust, let's discuss the power of being selfish and how it can apply to your life.

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