Not being seen at work?
Dr. Jasmine Escalera
Life Reinvention Strategist | Career Expert @BOLD | Helping Women Reinvent Their Lives with Clarity, Courage & Community via The Courage Crew
I was the first to do it all in my family.?
First to go to college.
First to go to graduate school.
First to land a six-figure job in my 20s
And I had so much damn pride for being the first.?
That is until I realized it meant something else…
I was also the ONLY Latina in a white-dominated, highly competitive field.?
And that meant something more than being the first in my family.?
It didn’t come with pride. It came with conformity.?
It didn’t feel like I was supported for who I was but pushed aside because of my differences.?
I was seen all right. But I wasn’t seen for my value. I was seen for my color. My background. And what that meant to people who were not like me or from my community.?
And to truly be seen in the way I wanted, I knew one important thing…
I had to find the right work environment for me.?
I couldn’t establish the visibility I needed to acquire sponsors, brag about my work accomplishments, or assert my ideas in meetings until I was in an environment that allowed me to do so.?
I couldn’t raise my hand to do the extra work that would enhance my value because I felt my hard work was already being exploited.?
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I couldn’t ask questions because I feared the judgment, stares, and sneers I would get that led to that internal voice and doubt saying, “They think you’re stupid.”
All of the pro tips I heard to increase my visibility and be seen were useless.?
Until I got into the space that I needed to be in to thrive.?
And that is what you must consider when saying, “I don’t feel seen at work” or “I want to be more visible.”?
Are you in the right environment to make that happen for yourself??
Because visibility is the key to success.?
But being the only can cripple your desire to truly be seen for fear of the repercussions you’ll face when you stand up. Speak out. And become visible.
Want to work on being seen, valued, and heard at work? Then check out today’s episode of Her Next Career Move.
I’m diving into the tips to make it happen for you now. You don’t want to miss out on this one. It is loaded with gems to help you take your career success to the next level.?
Need to change your work environment to make your level-up happen? Then consider working with me in my one-on-one group coaching program designed to help women of color create their career path, land a job they love, and make up to 50% more in their salary.
Schedule a consult call to discuss enrolling today.?
Lead Network Process & Quality @ AT&T | Network Engineering & Operations | Global Supply Chain Management Procurement | Escalation Incident Management | Network Management & Operations Solutions
2 年Ouch Jasmine this is me right now and I’m confused on what to do!!!
Travel Coordinator - Owner Aurora Concierge Travel ** And LCAM
2 年Good Talk!
Training B2B Teams to Master LinkedIn for Scalable Growth
2 年Great story Jasmine. Thank you for sharing!
Privacy Law and Cybersecurity | Practical Privacy Professional | Project Manager
2 年This really resonated with me. It also came with high, sometimes impossible expectations and little resources. Thank you for sharing your journey.