On being "right"?

On being "right"

The trouble with much of our public discourse is that even people with good intentions don't see the difference in one important distinction: Wanting to be right, vs. wanting to know IF you're right.

One is for truth-seekers (whatever "truth" you're seeking). The other is for those who are absolutely certain that there is no way of viewing the world other than the way that they've decided is correct.

Chris Owen

Business ??marts - Seasoned Leader, Business Advisor, & Public Speaker

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I know I fall into this trap from time-to-time ... especially when arguing with my wife (who proudly reminds me her IQ is one point higher than mine). It's really important to seek truth, not vindication. When we do that we lower our ego and open our mind (and heart) to the world of opportunities.

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Gloria Grace Rand

Empowering Women Entrepreneurs Over 50 to Thrive with Calm, Clarity, & Confidence | Self-Love Mentor & Energy Healer | Founder, Align to Shine Academy | 4X Best-Selling Author | Start prospering today??

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There's so much talking and shouting going on in the world, and not enough listening. Thanks for pointing out this difference.

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Samantha Distler

Emerging Technology Enthusiast | Insurtech | Digital Transformation Leader across People, Processes, and Systems

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I have learned so much from being wrong, it’s amazing how much you can grow when your mind is open enough it can be changed.

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