Being Impeccable. Your objective is to become Valuable.
Vikram Jit Singh Kohli
Copywriter | Email Marketer | Digital Specialist | Helping Corporate professionals & Entrepreneurs to master high-income skills, build profitable side hustles, & achieve financial independence.
There is this dilemma these days about whether your worth is defined by the packages you earn or the cars you drive, or is it something related to your character?
Well, one thing is clear: no amount of money, name, or fame can define you as a human being. Only your character does.
This brings me to a very pertinent question: how can you develop your character? It’s the most important quality that will always remain with you.
Wherever you are in life right now, see more closely. What can you do? What can you change to develop your character?
Your current experience is the ideal teacher because that’s what you are going through, and it’s telling you exactly what needs to change.
Don’t ignore this. Don’t try to run from it.
Take it as an experiment. Push through your fears and just start. Don’t think about perfection, because there is no such thing as perfection.
See what happens when you make a choice grounded in that understanding. Analyze it.
It’s your own personal transformation project. It’ll grow you as a human being.
You have to fall in love with the process. That’s the only way to explore unexplored paths.
If you don’t do anything, you’ll never ever be able to experience anything.
It’s you vs. you. You are your own idol.
No one else will make decisions on your behalf.
Self-awareness is the key.
You need to understand yourself to be honest with yourself.
Clear your mind from negative thoughts. Think about your objectives, mission, and vision.
Journal. Write them down.
Writing gives you a clear picture of what you want and what it will take to achieve those goals.
Revisit your past self. Thank God for those experiences.
Ask yourself what you knew then that you now think is wrong. Challenge yourself and read about those things that change your perspective.
Then brainstorm about those ideas and write down practical steps to start implementing those learnings.
Every moment is an opportunity to refine your process. Keep moving forward with faith in yourself.
Ask these questions:
? What right decisions did I make?
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? What wrong decisions did I make?
? Why did those decisions turn out the way they did?
? How do I do it better next time?
If you are struggling to answer these, pause and reflect. Dig deep and analyze again.
You have to learn from your experiences.
Think. What are you good at?
What can you improve upon?
What gives you energy?
What drains it?
Don’t let fear stop you from trying. Develop the courage to push through whatever is holding you back.
Your current experience can be painful. It can make you feel worthless sometimes.
It can be overwhelming. But it’s the only path to self-growth.
It’s the path to your best self.
And growth is a process of self-transformation.
Personal development is the only objective.
Life is an experiment. Be thankful for it.
It’s not perfect and will never be.
You will encounter obstacles.
You will face insurmountable challenges, but it'll all be worth it.
Making progress depends on how you grow from your experiences.
View every obstacle as an opportunity.
The more you can use those opportunities to improve, the more successful you will become.
Keep shining. Keep growing. Be awesome.