Being Black-African in Europe

I am often asked about the social and professional challenges I face as a Black-African living in Europe, especially by friends and family back home. Today, I want to share a piece of my heart with you. I am conscious of the fact that my personal experiences may not fully reflect those of most African immigrants living in Europe. Perhaps one day, I will write a book to capture these unique experiences, but for now, let me express my thoughts and reflections.

How do I generally feel as a Black-African living in Europe?

In a society that values uniqueness, being Black-African in Europe has become a truly “strategic” asset for me. Perhaps I have a rather positive insight into life, and this defines a lot of what manifest into my reality, as well as my judgement of people and behaviors, but I realize that people attach significance to my presence and the narratives I carry with me in a rather positive way. Regardless of my age or life experiences, the very fact that I moved to Europe at 24 years of age implies that there must be a unique story to tell – a story about the struggles I have overcome, and the resilience that emanates from my cultural background for being part of a historically marginalized minority – at least by the standards of modern European and Western cultures – one that is readily programmed to evoke empathy and recognition. Fact is, this curiosity grants me opportunities that may otherwise elude the average European my age. My African heritage acts as a magnet, attracting attention and enabling me to be heard and seen in various circles. What paradox!

The beauty lies in the fact that I need only make a small effort to stand out, as my mere presence speaks volumes. Whether it is in academia, professional settings, or social gatherings, my Africaness has become a conversation starter, allowing me to share my unique perspectives and contribute to the narrative of a multicultural environment. Being African is not simply a geographical identity; it represents a profound cultural heritage that shapes my very being. It encompasses a rich tapestry of traditions, beliefs, ideologies, and customs that have been passed down through generations. These cultural riches have taught me resilience, respect, and a deep connection to the land that bore me. In Europe, I proudly carry this identity as a badge of honor, allowing it to define my unique presence.

Moreover, my African roots have instilled within me a strong sense of community and the ability to build meaningful relationships with people from diverse backgrounds. This interconnectedness strengthens my experiences in Europe and empowers me to bridge cultural gaps, fostering understanding and unity.

Am I racially disadvantaged as an African living in Europe?

I never go unnoticed, and I never forget that I am different. This is a feeling I can never mute and may likely carry someday to the grave! How can I expect another person who is not as Black-African as me to not notice? That would be blatant dishonesty. However, through my interactions with White-Europeans, I have realized that I carry this feeling far longer in my own head than any other person could try to.

You see, some heads will turn when I enter any crowded space—probably a bit more than if I were a young White-Man. And yes, a few people would make a conscious effort not to look. But I wonder, what is unnatural about this? If racial differences were to grow any thicker in the 21st century, I can confidently say that it wouldn't be because of the openness we show towards “difference”, but the hard effort we put into trying to be "politically correct" (whatever that means).

I have come to realize that, though I may be on many people's minds wherever I go, it only lasts for the period when I am in sight. With time, I become less interesting, just like everything else. Yet, I can have the best seat on the train if I pay extra like everyone else, choose to have exclusive service, or go with the regular flow. I can even call the police on virtually anyone who infringes on my rights, and I will receive justice!

My reality living in Europe today is very different from the truth of my grandmother's experiences three decades ago. If there are any people who have put in drastic efforts to curb institutional and structural racism in rocket time, then Europe is worth emulating. It is not perfect, but commendable.

In my personal journey of almost 8 years living in Germany, I cannot pinpoint a particular instance where I was socially marginalized for my Africaness. And even when I felt closely mistreated, there was never a situation where I felt that I couldn't speak up and expect support from everyone else around me.

Speaking about my professional life, I have managed two reputable German companies within my first 5 years of living here, and I now work in the best "Big-Four" audit firm worldwide. How exciting. The lens from which we view life has a significant impact on our experiences. The more I "consciously" overlook the fact that I am a Black-African immigrant and different, the more I notice how similar a "White-Man" my age's everyday struggles are to mine.

Am I liked as a Black-African living in Europe?

As I reflect on over 30 years of life experiences, I am appreciative of the profound significance that “affection” holds for our social and mental well-being. It is a fundamental need shared by humans and animals (I choose to draw a distinction here). However, in a society that thrives on difference and diversity, striving solely to be "liked" becomes a vague pursuit.

What truly matters to me is respect. I have concluded that respect is a three-sided coin (you are welcome to draw a mental illustration for yourself), presenting itself in three distinct forms: having it, giving it, and receiving it. To foster an environment of respect, conscious effort is required. I constantly strive to be the best version of myself, paying close attention to the impression I leave upon others. I am mindful of the clothes I wear, my choice of words, and the way I interact with people. This conscientious approach to respect encompasses both giving it to others and expecting it in return.

It is worth noting that my journey has not been without challenges. Many of my initial friendships and acquaintances in Europe, for example, had a bittersweet transformation when I stood my ground and demanded an equal share of respect (a topic that could easily fill a book of over a hundred pages). However, my experiences have taught me that this struggle for respect is not confined to Europe alone.

In my travels, I have encountered diverse cultures and societies, where the quest for respect remains a universal pursuit. Regardless of our backgrounds or geographical locations, respect is an essential element that transcends borders. It is a crucial aspect of human connection and understanding.

So, when asked if I am “liked” as an African in Europe, my response is never direct. I extend my respect to all those I encounter on my journey, and I am proud to say that I have earned respect through my actions, principles, and unwavering demand for equality.

Introspection

So, while my Africaness grants me attention and opens doors, it also comes with the responsibility to shed light on the challenges faced by minorities. By embodying my African heritage with pride, I become an advocate for change and empathy. I strive to challenge stereotypes, dismantle prejudices, and promote inclusivity. Through my actions and interactions, I aim to create a space where others can understand and appreciate the richness and diversity that Africans bring to Europe.

In the next years, it is my vision to initiate and engage extensively in dialogues on social inclusion with concerned actors of European communities and other interested members of the ever-expanding community of African immigrants. Such dialogues, I believe, will enhance a more culturally diverse society where everyone feels equally represented, respected and supported.

Thanks for your audience.

Authored by: Aaron Boakye-Danquah

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