Behaviour Is Language
????♀? Szilvia Olah
Fractional HR Senior Leader | Award Winning HR Solutions | Organisational Psychologist | Standardising HR | Two Published Books | CliftonStrengths Facilitator
People's behaviour is language, and you better learn to understand it than to wonder why things happen. People talk to us all day, every day, and we are tone-deaf about it. Why? Because behaviours don't lie, and we hate the truth! Truth is harsh, but it is your best friend. It is a friend that tells you what you need to know so you can progress. It is your choice to listen or stay in the dark.
The behaviour of people tells you that spoken words will not. We have taught people to "be nice" and sugarcoat things or to say absolutely nothing. But behaviour rarely lies, especially in the long term. Here are the things it can tell you that words won't:
We see that everywhere every day. We see it with individuals and teams, corporate values and culture, policies and procedures. But we chose to ignore them and say, "Well, nobody told me/us." Well, they did you just did not listen.
Behaviour is language, and you better learn how to listen so you can move forward. The truth will always set you free, but you must have the courage to face it.
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1 年This article is mind blasting!! Smthg we all feel but fail to acknowledge! Thanks
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1 年The Maya Angelou quote springs to mind… "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." I’m with you, behaviour doesn’t lie ??