Before you decide True Love let time pass

While relationships shouldn’t be the be- all and end- all of life, it’s inevitable that you should sometimes hit up on compromises to make the bond sustain.

?Because no two persons share the exact same ideologies, it’s obvious that sometimes you need to find a mid-way to come full circle in your relationship.

If you are the only one willing to retrace your steps while your partner continues to go nonchalantly about their own business, it’s a very clear cut sign that it is very much only a time pass relationship for them.

Please don’t ever forget that true love is worth the wait.?True love is nothing you need to rush. It’s not something you’re supposed to force. Because you see, true?love is precious. It’s sacred. It’s not something to toss away.

It’s your looks and appeal that has your boy-friend into a relationship that is pure time pass. It is important to know that?love,?even falling in?love,?goes through stages and trials.?

Love?never stays the same, even if?you ?would like it that way, and if?you?don’t understand and don’t allow?love?to live its life and transform,?you ?may simply lose it. Everything that does not grow and transform simply withers and dies.?

True love is rare. It is a shiny diamond in a world full of pebbles. True love is meant to be cherished. It’s meant to be savored and to be devoured.

It’s not something to look away from. It’s not something to be afraid of or scared of. It’s not something to run away from.

Love is never the same for two different people, what joins them in a bond is the happiness for having found affection and mutual respect.

The human heart is wired to flutter around like a newborn butterfly and discover whatever’s sweet.

It craves for what is forbidden and runs from monotony. But these desires are iced when you stumble upon the glittery true love. Being fully entrenched in love makes things easy for you like the satisfaction which is felt, will refrain you from acting impulsively, which is never good for you in the long race.

The better you hold your impulses in place, the happier love will be for you, and vice versa. The grass always seems greener on the other side; it’s only when you step on it that you realize how dry and patchy it is.

Usually, it’s too late to step back into your pool by then. Realizing this is an important factor for the emotional wellbeing of both you and your partner. Even one’s interest in a diamond loses its shine after a count of days.

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Thank you ….Impulsive moments of recluse can lead to the destruction of a relationship which has taken levels of time and effort to build. The trust gained is not an easy task.

People rarely put down their guards in front of others in today’s world. Is it really worth to risk all that for a few moments of variety?

Cheating would make things so much hard, even if you decide to step out of it, the guilt and emotional burden added is a tough battle to fight.

Finding the perfect one surely is a hard nut to crack. Some are too clingy, some are too reserved.

Some want you to change, some need all your attention. Only a few encounters will love you for who you are and accept every flaw in you.

These are the people who help you grow as a person while providing you with all the affection you need.

It is important to know that?love,?even falling in?love,?goes through stages and trials.?

Love?never stays the same, even if?you?would like it that way, and if?you?don’t understand and don’t allow?love?to live its life and transform,?you?may simply lose it. Everything that does not grow and transform simply withers and dies.?

If you love someone, set them free. If they come back to you, it was meant to be

You may have heard the old saying,?If you if you love something set it free. Although it may not be applicable in every relationship, deciding when to let go of a connection can be essential in maintaining healthy dynamics in your life. Healthy relationships can improve mental health and mood overall.?

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Few experiences are as painful as severing the ties with a romantic partner — even if you’re the one who initiated the breakup. Your world may feel groundless, colorless, and meaningless.

A heartbreak can also inspire surprising self-growth and gift you with a sense of independence and vitality that you didn’t know what possible.

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Often tears fertilize the seeds of self-transformation and nurture a new self that needed to be discovered. “The emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it.

It’s difficult to heal if you’re living in limbo — if much of your day is spent dreaming of a shared life with your ex. Too much fantasizing shackles you to the past and keeps you in a state of pain.

It's so easy to get swept up in the rush of lovey-dovey feelings you get from dating someone new. While you should enjoy those moments.

The three month-mark in a relationship is usually when you either take the?relationship to the next level?or become more serious.

Every couple goes through the?stages of relationships?at their own pace. But three months is considered to be the average length of the first stage of a relationship.

You should be ideally making that transition from "casually dating" to "exclusive" around th.at time. But this varies depending on how much time you actually spend together and how much distance is between you two.

Losing interest isn’t exactly the reason some couples can't seem to make it past 90 days. It's not so much losing interest in one another as it is making a decision that this relationship is not one they want to invest more in and deepen.

They simply don't feel that the friendship, connection, attraction and interest are strong enough.

So will your new relationship make it past those crucial first 90 days?

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