Before we say, "I Do!" - Let's first talk about the ones who have said, "I'm Done!"
To All the Friends, Members, and Partners who Make F&F Happen - You're So Appreciated!

Before we say, "I Do!" - Let's first talk about the ones who have said, "I'm Done!"

June 17, 2024 | 8:00am CT

Hi Friend! ????

Well this is gonna start off awkward... ??

Let's start with the Good News? Far more people get married over the course of each year than get divorced . These divorce statistics show what happens to marriages that end and when and how couples decide to end them.

So, what about the famous statistic that half of all marriages end in divorce? That’s a bit of an exaggeration when it comes to first marriages, only 43% of which are dissolved. Second and third marriages actually fail at a far higher rate, though, with 60% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages ending in divorce.

69% of Divorces Are Initiated by Women

Women are far more likely than men to initiate divorce. In fact, nearly 7 in 10 marriage dissolutions are initiated by the female partner. (This is based on research involving heterosexual couples. I could not locate the stats for LGBTQ but am open to someone putting a comment and link below the newsletter - thank you!)

Women often carry more of the mental load in a relationship and also take on a primary caregiving role for children. The added burden they face—especially when they feel their support system is lacking—could help to explain why they are more likely to initiate divorce.

This is why it's so important to work with others who have a CDFA Designation (Follow Carol Lee Roberts, CFP?, CDFA? and the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts? organization. FYI: No one is paying for me to say that, I just believe in their work.) Being a Certified Divorce Financial Analysts (one of the designations we see so often in our members of the Females and Finance Community ) is a good start to understanding the "I'm Done!" clients and better preparing the "I Do!" clients when the time comes.

I told you last week...we are going to talk about hard things! You were warned! LOL!


Cheers to Unleashing Potential! ??

Sheryl Hickerson | Founder & CEO - Females and Finance


Look At All These Amazing People Doing Cool Things! (It's Like We Are Proud Parents!)

F&F Members can submit their #WINSday item via the Member Portal by going here: https://femalesandfinance.com/membership-portal#winsday-submission


Happy June! Join us for some upcoming events!
We want to see YOU at an Upcoming Event!

We've really simplified our meeting schedule... with the only caveat on Wednesdays.

  • Office45 (not pictured above) is a 45-minute pick-your-brain meeting held the 2nd Wednesday of each month at 12pm CT. These are for F&F Basic, Plus, and Partner Members to attend. You will find invites available to those members in our F&F Community App Calendar. https://www.skool.com/females-and-finance/calendar
  • Office45+ (not pictured above) is a 45-minute pick-your-brain meeting held the 4th Wednesday of each month at 12pm CT. These are for Plus and Partner Members to attend. You will find invites available to those members in our F&F Community App Calendar. https://www.skool.com/females-and-finance/calendar

F&F Members can view the F&F Community Calendar here: https://www.skool.com/females-and-finance/calendar


Support our Fearless Pledge to Hire, Mentor, Train, and Advance More Women, Allies, and DEB Professionals!

In Partnership with Asset-Map

We are so excited to offer everyone in the Financial Services and Financial Technology the opportunity to attend our weekly programship meetings (held Tuesdays at 12pm CT.)

Our weekly programships are designed to help all financial professionals learn more about themselves, their work and supporting other colleagues. Additionally, it helps professionals reach more business in their respective communities and areas of expertise.

Females and Finance currently offers 6 Programships at Females and Finance:

- MAN: Male Ally Network (Executive Advisor: Jeff Thomas) https://maleallynetwork.com

- UNITY: LGBTQ+ Professionals (Executive Advisor: Peggy Haslach, CFP?,CLU? ) https://unityprogramship.com

- RISE: Black & Brown Professionals (Executive Advisor: Stoy Hall, CFP? )

- ELLA: Latinx Professionals (Executive Advisor: TBA)

- Compass: Neurodivergent Professionals (Executive Advisors: Kristin Carleton, Matt Halloran, and Katie Kimball )

- FinWell365: Financial Coaching Professionals (Executive Advisor: Clare Dubé, CFSW ) https://finwell365.com


June 2024 Schedule of Roundtable Meetings @ 12pm CT

Jun 4 - Compass

Jun 11 - FinWell365

Jun 18 - MAN

Jun 25 - UNITY


Register Here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYuf-mhpjstHtP2JazRpBQ-U8z9Ccjhcjcv

Anyone in Financial Services or Financial Technology may attend the Affinity Group meetings. Only F&F Basic, Plus and Partner Members may access any of the meeting summaries afterwards in our Building YOU Program Library on the F&F Community App. https://www.skool.com/females-and-finance/classroom/57e17999?md=overview


Support our Fearless Pledge: To Hire, Mentor, Train, and Advance more Women and Diversity & Equity Colleagues!

In Partnership with Ficomm Partners

We are so excited to offer every member of the Females and Finance Community the opportunity to participate in our Career Center free-of-charge!

How can YOU access the Career Center? So glad you asked!

  1. Sign Up to become a member! We have Free Friend accounts, Basic Memberships for $5/month, and Plus Memberships for $20/month. It helps us stay sustainable and bring resources like this to so many for no-cost to low-cost by supporting our organization through your membership contributions. Thank you! https://femalesandfinance.com/membership-options
  2. Go to your Membership Portal to submit your position or post your résumé. https://femalesandfinance.com/signin?backTo=%2Fsubmit-your-position-or-resume
  3. We will be in touch as soon as your position or résumé is ready for circulation in our F&F Community App - and we will add it here to our LinkedIn newsletter, too!

FYI: We currently have one candidate readily looking for work in Financial Services / Financial Technology and is REALLY in need of placement. You can find their information in our F&F Community App currently.

https://www.skool.com/females-and-finance/classroom/59f6c19b?md=overview


7 Business Resources on Innovative Solutions

  • fwd2cal. Stop creating calendar events yourself. Just forward any email to [email protected] , and AI will read your email and add an event to your calendar. Open source, and private by design. None of your emails are stored or logged. https://www.fwd2cal.com/
  • VoiceCheap. AI-powered video dubbing & translation tool. Customize everything - use your voice or our library. Built-in speech-to-text, text-to-speech, auto-subtitles & lipsync. Perfect for YouTubers & course creators. Try it for free with 30k tokens! https://www.voicecheap.ai/
  • evo. evo is a social platform for events and calendars. Host events, join shared calendars with friends, follow event calendars by your favorite artists, venues, or athletes. Never miss an event you love as evo syncs seamlessly with your digital calendar. https://www.evo.social/
  • Guardey. 95% of hacks and data leaks are caused by human error. Guardey uses gamification to train your employees to recognize and report cyber threats. https://www.guardey.com/
  • Logoit. A simple stupid logo maker for everyone. Want to get a quick logo for your side projects or apps ? Logoit generate simple logos that you can download for free in various formats. https://logoit.ghostkode.com/
  • Piips. Communicate with the people and venues that surround you in real time. https://piips.net/
  • MoneyMate. Easily manage chores for all your kids. Teach responsibility by linking allowance to chores. Create chores assign them to one of your children or even all of them. Encourage friendly competition with "first come, first serve" chores. https://moneymateapp.io/

F&F Members can find these resources and more in our Business Resources Section of the F&F Community App Classroom: https://www.skool.com/females-and-finance/classroom/35c38454?md=overview


??Have Your People Call Our People!

In Partnership with Optimized Insurance Planning

We are so excited to offer every member of the Females and Finance Community the opportunity to participate in our Speaker Bureau free-of-charge!

The Speaker Bureau is now open and free for any member of Females and Finance to post an open position and/or post your resume that your available for hire.

  1. Sign Up to become a member! We have Free Friend accounts, Basic Memberships for $5/month, and Plus Memberships for $20/month. It helps us stay sustainable to bring resources like this to so many for no-cost to low-cost by supporting our organization through your membership contributions. Thank you! https://femalesandfinance.com/membership-options
  2. Go to your Membership Portal to submit your speaker reel here. https://femalesandfinance.com/signin?backTo=%2Fsubmit-your-speaker-reel
  3. We will be in touch as soon as your speaker reel and information are ready for circulation in our F&F Community App - and we will add it occasionally here on our LinkedIn newsletter, too!

F&F Members can find these speakers and more in our Speaker Bureau located in the F&F Community App Classroom: https://www.skool.com/females-and-finance/classroom/a17a499c?md=overview


The Capacity Effect Podcast: The Result of Personal and Professional Expansion

We have a new podcast series starting soon called "The?Capacity?Effect." It's?the?result of what happens when you lead with?capacity?in your personal and professional life.

Capacity always has pros and cons, but I want to go deeper in my interviews on why some people get more... more stuff done... more content shared... more books written... more speaking slots... more innovation... more business... more followers in their networks, etc.

We will explore what happens that causes someone to expand positively, as well as when did it go wrong and they hit a crossroad where it became a negative. Our discussions will navigate it all.

This is what I call, "The?Capacity?Effect" (and I might be working on a book with the same name and looking for some friends to quote in it!)?

Stay tuned for more information on guests, topics, and more!


Because Let's Be Honest: We ALL Need Someone!

In Partnership with Docupace

We are so excited to offer every member of the Females and Finance Community the opportunity to participate in our Mentor Match free-of-charge!

The Mentor Match is open and free for any member of Females and Finance to post a need for a Mentor (or anyone willing to become one.) So, how do you do that?

  1. Sign Up to become a member! We have Free Friend accounts, Basic Memberships for $5/month, and Plus Memberships for $20/month. It helps us stay sustainable to bring resources like this to so many for no-cost to low-cost by supporting our organization through your membership contributions. Thank you! https://femalesandfinance.com/membership-options
  2. Go to your Membership Portal to submit your availability as a Mentor or your need for support as a Mentee. https://femalesandfinance.com/signin?backTo=%2Fmentor-match
  3. We will be in touch as soon as your availability or need is ready for circulation in our F&F Community App.

F&F Members can find these mentors and mentees in our Mentor Match located in the F&F Community App Classroom: https://www.skool.com/females-and-finance/classroom/c484296a?md=overview


Authors From Our Community & Book Recommendations, Too!

The Book Store is open and free for any member of Females and Finance to post a book they recommend or if you're an author - we can feature you here, too!

This week in the F&F Library we added:

F&F Members can find the Book Store here: https://www.skool.com/females-and-finance/classroom/28969039?md=overview


We Have The Best Partners in Finance!

Many thanks to the partners who make our F&F Community possible. (And if you'd like to learn more about our Partnership Program, feel free to learn more here: https://femalesandfinance.com/partnership )

? GOLD PARTNERS

? Silver Partners

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Before You Leave - Be Sure to Follow Females and Finance on Social Media!

Keena Pettijohn

CEO& Founder ,Editor of “ The Sassy”,Advocate for Aging Well and Wealthy,Wellness As A Solution "WaaS"?/ Credit Union Evangelist , Driver of revenue by partnering with innovative technology providers.

5 个月

Grateful for all that you do and this unbelievable “new” newsletter. It is beyond “Capacity”.

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Tina Powell

Partner at Leading Financial Services Marketing Agency | Driving B2B Success | Lung Cancer Survivor & Advocate

5 个月

Thank you Sheryl Hickerson for sharing our recent webinar with Jason M. Pereira and all of these awesome updates! We ?? Females and Finance Community

Thank you for the shout out! You are amazing.

Keena Pettijohn

CEO& Founder ,Editor of “ The Sassy”,Advocate for Aging Well and Wealthy,Wellness As A Solution "WaaS"?/ Credit Union Evangelist , Driver of revenue by partnering with innovative technology providers.

5 个月

Thank you for the mention and proud to say that Lawrence Sprung, CFP? and I worked together on “ Stop the Stigma of Mental Health”. There is an inextricable link between Money and Mental Health as the piece you shared Sheryl Hickerson with the Females and Finance Community . Much appreciated.

Judy Hoberman

Executive Coaching and Masterminds for Women TRAILBLAZERS to Excel in Leadership and Achieve Work-Life Harmony-CHPC-Sales-Leadership-Speaker

5 个月

Love this edition Sheryl Hickerson and Females and Finance Community Thank you for mentioning me. Looking forward to meeting some of the amazing women and men here. You are rocking it ??

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